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Why do parents favor good children? This question is the same as asking you: Why look for beautiful women on blind dates but not ugly women! In fact, anyone can answer, in fact, everyone can know, but emotionally difficult to accept.
So I will not go into this question from the excellent definition of
four basics: the linkage of the two basics, you can find the cause.
@1Excellent=Strong competitiveness
The first type of "Internal Strength"
Intrinsically speaking, it is the things in the head: IQ, EQ, concentration, etc. are inherently stronger than others.
In other words, we are talking about winning at the starting line, but the starting line here is changed from the family environment (class) to an innate talent.
The second kind of "Foreign Strength"
Externally speaking, it refers to the appearance and figure: the skin is white and tender, the figure is tall, and the facial features are exquisite. This is a VIP stepping stone.
The long look looks low and said:
The job hunting gives you an impression. If you do something wrong, you can’t bear to blame you, and the staff who go out to do things will also be agile.
Go up and say:
can catch a beetle-in-law,Can take a Bai Fumei.
directly realizes the breakthrough of the self-class, and achieves the breakthrough of the whole family a little bit more powerfully. Rocket girl: Yang Chaoyue, Jingdong proprietress: milk tea sister. . I believe that if you pay attention, you will find many such situations in your life.
_strong 28 The family is troubled by money. In addition to your own efforts, you also need chicken baby "Fighting Children". The difference is that white-collar families prefer the talented children of "Neiqiang". Most of them are able to climb up through college entrance examinations and hard work, and want their sons to follow their path. And the working class: Both are fine, but I have deliberately paid attention to it. They prefer "Waiqiang", especially girls with good looks and body. 2 Irrational factors: human dual nature For example, people with good nature tend to favor unsatisfied children, stupid children, and long ugly children. People who are pragmatic by nature tend to favor children who are good at school, beautiful children, and children with high emotional intelligence. Cause of formation These two choices are actually not wrong: only the working class and the white-collar class,Run for money. In order to pursue a better life, the choice made is generally pragmatic and sensible . So in the use of two-factor linkage: choose excellent children The above is a dumb summary, if you have other additions, please leave a message below. Previous highlights: Use the theory of (four bases) to interpret: Why is it a male The phenomenon of families with children About the author: Dad, dad, the creator of framed knowledge. Establish a system with a formula built by yourself, establish a heart defense, and create a moat. Let you not lose yourself in the flood of fragmented knowledge flying all over the sky. Note: The picture comes from the Internet,If there is any infringement, please contact to delete it.
@2 Then use four bases to find attribution : dual linkage _strong29 strong
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sacrifice a child's emotions and material benefits in exchange for the growth of another child with better qualifications, who can define right or wrong NS.
"Four bases" tell you why not to choose, Girl
