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I have a good friend who lives in a small county because of the lack of resources. I feel that I am a child and teacher in the education system. She has been preparing for her education very early, and has been preparing various resources very carefully, including of course English enlightenment.
learned that I started homeschooling in 2014. She was very interested. On the one hand, she wanted to learn about homeschooling. On the other hand, she hoped that I could join her in class, one-on-one foreign teachers. She bought two years If I can work hard with her, she wants to buy a few more lessons before the price increases. Of course, because our family only has a salary for our husband, the price is of course a huge burden for me, so I didn’t agree.
Later, I went back to my hometown and had an appointment with her. I had the opportunity to see her child. From time to time, she would talk to her in English, and the child would also use English to answer her. The child was five years old. By the time, RAZ had already reached the H level, and I could also listen to Crazy School, which really made me envious.
Some time ago, I posted a few pictures in my circle of friends to show my English enlightenment in my family. She came to me and asked me what materials I would listen to my child, and then sighed and said her home She gave up her child’s English completely. It surprised me and felt it was a pity. As a good friend, I certainly hope to be able to help a little bit, suggesting that she change interesting materials and so on. She said that she tried it all, it’s useless, child. I'm very disgusted and can't enter at all...
learned in a later chat,My mother is used to "teaching", foreign teachers' oral lessons, audio listening, natural spelling lessons, reading training lessons, grammar learning, the child's time is full. After 4 years, the child's interest is gone. It turned out to be very interesting
language learning is not an overnight thing, but a long-term accumulation process, mothers must let go of their anxiety , Don’t urge the child to speak during the silent period of the child.
Children learn their mother tongue, soak in the environment of their mother tongue every day, and they don’t start speaking until they are more than one year old or nearly two years old. Besides, we are not in an English environment?
So mother's mentality is very important, let go of anxiety, don't pull the seedlings to encourage, stick to the implementation, but the language needs to wait.
Do not destroy your child’s interest in learning in order to shorten the waiting time, and the gain is not worth the loss.
In fact, there are many such cases.
This father used to do English enlightenment at home very carefully, but in return, the daughter almost hates English and almost hates learning. After joining Xiao Lang, he won the opportunity.
so that my father gratefully calls Xiao Lang English a life-saving straw.
This child who was originally tired of learning, after 2 months of Xiao Lang's English, surprises the father again and again, and is very confident and brave in front of the foreign teacher. Other children are afraid to communicate with foreign teachers.
TWO
It's like the old tune recurring story: a child like music,I don’t like it anymore after taking piano lessons for a few days; children like art, and painting classes for a few days, and never play with paintbrushes anymore; children like dancing, and they don’t like dancing anymore..... .
The child likes English, but he hates English when he goes to English training classes for a few days.
No matter what interest class I enroll in, I hate these subjects in the end. Why is it so?
Because I entered the stylized classroom mode too early, it killed the children's creativity and imagination.
THR
is the reason why English training is forbidden in Taiwan. Class-style learning in meditation is harmful to children's physical and mental development.
FOUR
In fact, this is a big misunderstanding.
The early childhood stage is the language-sensitive period. It is a great waste of the language-sensitive period to do it after 7 years old. Because the language acquisition ability will decline rapidly after the age of 7.
Chinese ancient poem: young and old leave home and the old man will return,There is no change in the local accent.
The language acquired before the age of 7 is like a mother tongue and will accompany it for a lifetime.
Our teachers’ experience in mentoring thousands of families tells us that before the child is 7 years old, using a native-style English enlightenment, one to two years, the child can be as fluent in English as an American child. Reach the level of native language.
and children learn English easily and freely without any pressure.
The point is, don’t learn English in class.
Therefore, the training courses and foreign teaching courses are really worthy for parents in the early childhood stage.
FIVE
should not be the enlightenment mode, but it is not necessary to make mistakes in English or avoid it. Adopting compulsory or reluctant methods to educate young children is harmful!
I hope that everyone will be able to see what children really need to learn.
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