1, children nowadays have better awareness of autonomy and do not obey.
Some truths and instructions I have given to the children will first think about them in their minds, and then choose whether to obey or accept them or not. Yesterday morning, I said to a student in the first few days in my class: "Please go and sweep the back of the classroom." He actually said to me, "Why should I sweep the floor!" I said to him, "Why should other classmates help you sweep the floor!" In the past, the teacher gave the instructions, and the children were all bowing their heads and respectfully accepting the order. How dare they say "no"? Now it’s very different. The teacher said, but they don’t want to listen! They have their own ideas and consciousness, but the most intuitive thing is to ask you to be your class teacher and I am my student.
2. Children nowadays are the top at home, and no one is afraid.
Because children are spoiled at home nowadays, and they have whatever they want every day. The outside is full of his world. Many things assigned by the teacher will not do, and he will ignore you if he says he will ignore you if he says he will ignore you if he says he will have air conditioners in the class now, and they will ask them to bring a plate of green plants to absorb the odor of the classroom. I have arranged it for a month, and only half of them will take care of them. Some of them will say directly, "I don't have them at home, or find other reasons to excuse you." If you don’t bring it, what can you do with him? Sometimes when his parents say a few words, he doesn’t come to class the next day, and he really has no advice.
3. Nowadays, children have a wide range of contacts and don’t like to listen to other people’s honest advice
In other words, children now rely on ideological education, and the effect is not too obvious. They know what they want to do, and nothing you say can do. There is a student in my class who goes to bed every day in class. I said, "Can you not sleep? Listen to what the teacher teaches." He replied to me, "I don't want to eat anything but a bowl of rice. What's the point of learning?" Then he told me a lot of stories at night, which showed that knowledge is useless.