Lianlian has not been able to crawl for more than 9 months, and my parents are so nervous. Especially when my mother sees someone, she asks, "My lotus has not been able to crawl for more than 9 months. Is it growth retardation?" Because I had no experience as a mother for the first time, I checked the child's development from books. You must know that the standards for children's development written in the book are for most children and can only be used as a reference.
Because every child is an individual, and the development of children is related to many factors such as family inheritance, growth environment, feeding methods and nutrition, it is normal for children to master their skills.
In real life, everyone is familiar with the words left by the ancestors of "three turns, six sittings and seven climbing". Why is there such a saying? It is because most children enter the crawling sensitive period from 6 to 10 months, and children generally learn to crawl during this time.
Parents and mothers must know that each baby's development is different in personality. Some babies will crawl earlier, while some babies will learn to crawl later, and some babies even learn to crawl first. Walking and then crawling is a common occurrence. My eldest child is one of them.
The big baby will not crawl when it is time to crawl, and we have made a lot of efforts. For example: when you accompany your baby every day, put him on the bed or cushion to guide the baby to crawl. Let the baby lie on the bed first, and place the baby's favorite toys in front of the baby. While the adults say encouraging words, they drag the baby's feet with their hands to induce the baby to crawl forward.
Of course, when the baby sees the toy he likes, he also acts very hard, but the baby often lowers his head hard and makes an arched posture. Improper force, so the baby is not forward, but backward. We are often amused to see the baby retreat so quickly. The big baby is very similar to his father when he was a child. His father just couldn't crawl forward. Every time he trained to crawl, he moved backwards.
Every child is a special case, even children born to the same mother will be different. My and Erbao are different from the big baby. When Erbao is about to reach the sensitive period of crawling, we still use the same method to train Erbao to practice crawling. After only three or four times of practice, Erbao learns to crawl. I remember that Erbao was only six and a half months old at that time.
Children will not crawl when they reach the crawling sensitive period. There are various reasons, some are because of the children, some are because the parents hold too much, the children have no chance to climb, or the parents do not pay attention to guiding and training the children to crawl, so Children will crawl later than others .
How to let children learn to crawl?
. Provide more opportunities for babies to crawl
If you are a careful person, you will find that some families are very concerned about their children. However, the ability of children from such families to crawl and walk is not as strong as that of children from families whose parents are very busy and do not even care about their children.
My cousin daughter was brought by her cousin and mother-in-law when she was born, and she was very careful about her children.My cousin's daughter is about the same size as her neighbor's baby. Because the neighbor's house is doing business, the husband and wife are very busy. As long as they are busy, they have no time to take care of the children. From the time the child can sit, the adults put the child aside and play by themselves. Sometimes when the child is crying sadly, the cousin will bring the baby to play with him. Unexpectedly, this unattended child can walk in just over ten months, while my cousin's daughter barely dared to let go of her mother's hand and take a few steps until she was 1 year and 3 months old.
Why are the children who are specially brought up to master the skills not as good as the children who are not brought by no one? In fact, the reason is very simple, children who are not brought by anyone have to rely on themselves. For example: the child wants a toy next to it, because there is no parental help, the child can only find a way to get it. Children who are brought by a special person also want that toy. When adults see it, they will take it and hand it to the child immediately. In this way, the child will lose the opportunity to think of a way by himself, and the child will learn to be lazy over time.
Many parents are worried that their children will bump into each other, so they hold and protect their children all day long. Even if the children are in the sensitive period of crawling, they have no chance to exercise. Therefore, in order for children to grow up healthily and children enter the crawling sensitive period, parents must provide children with more opportunities to crawl, so that children can learn to use their brains while crawling, thereby broadening their horizons.
, Play with crawling babies
There are many parents who see other people's children's bravery and generosity and envy them to death, and always complain that their own children are afraid of life and do not fit in when they go out, but they don't know what the problem is.You must know that before 6 months, if you put two babies together, when one baby laughs, the other baby will also giggle; if one baby cry, the other baby will also cry, which shows that the baby not only influence each other and imitate each other.
Similarly, If you want your baby to learn to crawl, it is necessary to let the baby play with crawling children more, let the baby imitate the companion crawling while playing, and learn to communicate with others while crawling.
、Parents set a good example for their babies
Nowadays, many families live in buildings, and everyone is used to closing the door when they come in and out. In particular, the neighbors who live in the same unit corridor are not familiar with each other. Even if the neighbors have children, there is very little opportunity for everyone to communicate with each other. In this way, children rarely have the opportunity to play with children of the same age, so parents should pay more attention.
Children naturally like to imitate, and learning skills generally start from imitation. When the child enters the crawling sensitive period, the child will not crawl, so parents should give the child a demonstration first. When parents accompany their children, they first demonstrate how to crawl, and while they crawl, parents tell their children how to use their hands, how to push their feet back, and how to use their bodies to move forward. Don't worry that the child doesn't understand, the child will understand if you talk a lot.
In a word, children's learning ability is related to many factors, especially genes will play a certain role in the child's sustainable development; but the baby's progress mainly depends on the parents' stimulation of the baby and the thought of flowers. From 6 months to 1 year old, babies will reach new milestones in their growth-learning to crawl, stand, take their first steps in life, and learn how to communicate with others.During this time, parents' attentive and high-quality companionship will allow the baby to enter a wider world, and will also determine the height of the child's future life. In the process of children growing up, if parents continue to give children encouragement and courage, children will learn to be independent in advance and have self-confidence. Do you agree with me?
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