Recently, there have been more and more consultations about unwanted pregnancy in the background (never less), and many of these consultations mentioned: We are wearing condoms, but we still recruited . If you ask
carefully, you will find that if there is a slight difference between wearing a condom in and wearing a condom correctly, you will become pregnant with .
I think it's time to talk more about wearing condoms.
First of all, let's review what is wearing the condom correctly :
Before the genitals touch, empty the seminal vesicle at the front of the condom, cover the head, and slide down from the beginning. Instead of wearing it the other way around. After the body inch, you should pinch the end to ensure that JY does not flow out and exit in time.
So what does it mean to wear a condom from genital contact?
Genital contact, literally, is the contact between the skin of the V channel and its vicinity and the skin of the penis and its vicinity. Before that, the condom should have been put on.
Why wear a condom from genital contact? In fact, the root cause of
is to prevent male bodily fluids from entering the female body.
Because there is also sperm in the prostatic fluid, as long as there is exchange of body fluids, it is possible to get pregnant. Although it is said that with the development of the times, people's life pressure has become higher, and the sperm activity of men has generally declined, but it does not mean that you will not suddenly encounter people with particularly good sperm activity, right, just in case! There is no need to take this risk!
So, here comes the quiz,
Is the following situation before genital contact?
, do not go in, but Ding Ding rubs against the V crossing
, do not go in, but Ding Ding rubs
near the chrysanthemum , does not go in, but rubs the V crossing
with the balls, goes in, not quite yet, Just go in and rub
Answer: belong! ! Tintin is the genitals, and the vicinity of the V channel and the chrysanthemum are all around the genitals, which are all genital contact.
You might say that you won't get pregnant if you come in contact with chrysanthemums. Yes, but the chrysanthemum is very close to the V channel, so it cannot be ruled out that there is a particularly active prostatic fluid that will slip into the V channel quietly. In addition, there are a lot of bacteria near the chrysanthemum, wearing a condom can block the spread of bacteria virus , not just for contraception.
are all in, isn't it a joke that you told me you didn't touch?
Second round
Does the following fall under genital contact?
, kiss the lips below affectionately, and even spray each other.
, kiss Ding Ding affectionately, even to the size of each other.
. Kissing passionately, they have already rubbed together, but they have not taken off their underwear yet.
. After touching the male genitals, stroking the female genitals.
Answer: the first three are not at all. So you can rest assured. The fourth one needs to be analyzed according to the specific situation.
For example, if both of you have not started, and your hands are still dry after touching, and there is no liquid at all, then it is still relatively safe, but if the man has just finished measuring, or has just overflowed with body fluids, and immediately There is still a certain risk factor to immediately send the body fluids that come into contact with them into the V channel.
Third round:
Does the following belong before genital contact?
, the stone has not been updated yet, so first rub the auxiliary stone to update
, not yet wet, so first rub the auxiliary to enter the state
Answer: belongs!
Whether it is wet or not, hard or not, the genitals are all there, the body fluids are all there, it doesn't depend on your will! Hardness and wetness are not only a manifestation of the physical level, but also sometimes the experience of a psychological state. It is not that the secretion and exchange of bodily fluids will not occur without hardness or wetness.
Besides, it rubbed on it before it got wet, and the pregnancy panic came up immediately. How can you help to enter the state! ?
There are also some common questions:
, must it start with genital contact? Should I wear it from the beginning? I'm wearing a front xi!
of course, it is very good to wear it from the beginning, but there is a problem that sometimes in the process of the former xi, Tintin may not always be able to keep the stone, and it may suddenly soften, causing the condom to fall off . Replacing is also cumbersome and wasteful.
In addition, in the pre-xi process, if you do not take off your clothes or the like, you may scratch the condom unintentionally, so it is safer to wear a condom before genital contact. The light does not feel like breaking the condom, you can also wear it directly to do the front xi ~
, so if you roll halfway, do you need to change the condom?
If the condom has fallen off due to the weakness of and , then a new condom needs to be replaced, but if it is simply soft, it is still firmly worn on the body. If you can't judge, then replace it.
, so, should I just change the posture?
Generally speaking, it is not necessary. You don't even have to come out, just change your posture and find out.
But if you want to change from entering the chrysanthemum to entering the V channel, then you need to replace the sleeve, so that the sleeve is not damaged due to lack of lubrication and friction and extrusion, and also to prevent bacteria in the chrysanthemum from being brought into the V channel.
. When you are done, you can’t save and first. Do you have to deal with the condoms first?
There are many ways to be gentle, but risking the dicks and condoms who are already dead in the V channel is definitely not one of them. After the body is finished, the penis will be weak and lose its previous full state. At this time, the body fluids can easily flow out of the condom and then flow into the V channel, which is a very dangerous behavior .
Therefore, be sure to quit Ding Ding first. As for whether to deal with the condom immediately after quitting, this is a personal freedom. Just be careful not to put body fluids in and around the V channel. If you don't dislike JY's outflow to places like sheets, and you don't feel uncomfortable, you can deal with it later.
It is better to just tie a knot and throw it in the trash. Of course, if you want to do a good job of garbage sorting, you can also empty the condom into the toilet and then throw it away. Used condoms should belong to other non-recyclable waste.
5, Okay, I did all the above, but I still got pregnant unexpectedly, what happened? !
A. Maybe because you didn't do it, it is recommended to read it repeatedly.
B. Maybe the condom you are using is broken.
Sets should be kept in a cool, non-rubbing place and used within the shelf life.
Therefore, common places such as wallets, pockets to put condoms are not suitable for storing condoms. If you want to carry it out, you can pack it in a small iron box, or you can buy two or three small boxes and pack them. And don't just carry one directly in your pocket.
6, is there so much knowledge about wearing a condom, can I not wear a condom?
If you do not want to use condoms, please consider other contraceptive methods, such as short-acting contraceptives , ligation , etc. condoms are not the only contraceptive methods, but they also have the effect of protecting and blocking viruses, so It is also necessary to learn to wear a condom, which will not be introduced in detail in this article.
However, in the end, it is reiterated that the so-called safe period and body size are not contraceptive methods! ! !
7, how could it be so easy to get pregnant? I do not believe!
Once again, contraception requires science and minimizes risks, so you can't take chances. Although sometimes the probability of pregnancy is low in theory, it is 100% for you if you do, so I'd rather be careful , and don't be sloppy on this one.
However, there are also many people who panic about X behavior because they are too worried about pregnancy. Even if they have taken foolproof contraceptive measures, they are still worried about pregnancy and even dare not perform X behavior. Then, you can refer to this article: Teach you how to deal with pregnancy panic
Finally, I wish this world no unintended pregnancy, and that every child is born in anticipation.