For today's children, the existence of social networks has undoubtedly become a part of daily life. Although many children are young, they have developed the habit of sharing daily life and photos online.
13-year-old girl 1.7 meters old, dressed maturely and showing "beautiful photos", Bao's mother was worried
When I was reading the news a few days ago, I saw a treasured mother named Lili asking for help from netizens. The reason is that recently Her daughter's dress style changed suddenly, and she also developed the habit of taking "beautiful photos".
The thing is like this, this mother's daughter is just 13 years old this year, but she is a little "overgrown", her height has reached 1 meters 7, and she has grown very beautiful since she was a child, Lili also likes to take children Dressing up like a little princess can be said to be loved and praised by everyone, very popular with friends around her, and the child is also very happy and enjoys this process.
As the child slowly entered adolescence, Baoma Lili gradually found that the child had a lot of ideas about dressing up, and more and more like to spend time on dressing up, usually not only like wearing some mature clothes , but also He was also caught several times secretly using makeup and dressing himself in the mirror.
In fact, the child has entered adolescence. It is not surprising to see such a change. Bao Mama Lili did not care too much. However, some time ago, she suddenly discovered that there are many "beautiful photos" in the child's mobile phone. In the photos, she is dressed up. Mature , has an enchanting posture. Although is only 13 years old this year, she does not look any different from an adult girl, and she also uploads these photos of herself on some social media, which has received a lot of strangers Netizens' attention and likes.
Baomama Lili is very apprehensive about her child's behavior. Although it is understandable for a girl to love beauty in adolescence, she is very worried about whether her daughter's behavior is too "premature" and will not adversely affect the child's growth. . So Baoma Lili posted her concerns on the Internet, hoping to get everyone's advice and find a good solution.
Adolescent children are too "premature"? Parents should properly guide
For the growth of children, adolescence is undoubtedly an important sign of the gradual transition from immaturity to maturity. As the most rapid and obvious period of personal physical and mental changes, every child will begin to have some adult characteristics at this stage. , and children gradually become "mature" by dressing up in adolescence, which is actually a relatively normal psychological expression . In the face of children's behavior, parents don't need to make a fuss, this is completely a normal change.
From a psychological point of view, when children come to adolescence, they start to like to dress themselves up, which is essentially a kind of self-discovery. Look at yourself from the perspective of an adult, as a parent, you should understand the silent psychological changes of children.
Of course, parents should also guide their children properly. If the children are too "premature", they will not only dress in an unsightly style, but also like to pursue some illusory pursuits on the Internet. For me, learning is the main task. is too "premature" and is not a truly mature performance of .
Correctly respond to the changes in children's clothing during adolescence, and smart parents do this.
1.Support children's beauty psychology from the side
Because of the rapid changes in body and mind, adolescent children are often more rebellious. If parents blindly take measures when educating their children Tough measures will only arouse the inner resentment of the child and make the child go further and further down the wrong path. Therefore, parents should support their children's beauty-loving psychology from the side, give more mature suggestions and opinions on their children's dress style, and guide their children to have a dress style that suits their age.
2.Pay attention to children's mental health
The reason why children "love beauty" is that they want to gain recognition from others. Parents should pay attention to their children's mental health and prevent children from placing too much importance on other people's opinions. Psychologically and behaviorally extreme.
3.Guide children to pay more attention to the improvement of inner self-cultivation
For adolescent children, they often already have a sense of self-improvement. Parents should rationally make children realize that true beauty comes from the inside, too weird and too mature dress style Although it will attract the attention of others, it is not suitable for oneself. Only by "cultivating both inside and outside" is the real beauty.
Crooked mother's conclusion:
In fact, it is a good thing for a child to start paying attention to his appearance when he reaches adolescence. This just shows that she is gradually maturing, which is an external manifestation of "growing up". As parents of our children, we should face up to this change in our children, and guide our children to develop in a good direction, rather than just preaching and criticizing , otherwise it will only get the opposite result .
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