Li Zhongying said: "There are no good enough children, there are only parents who do not understand interpretation, guidance, and are unwilling to see clearly and change."
"Bear children" are terrible. Wrong, taking sabotage as releasing nature.
But this is not the most terrifying, the most heartbreaking thing is that the "bear children" are making trouble in front of them, and the "bear parents" let it go.
Not long ago, during the May Day holiday, I encountered a disturbing incident in a certain cinema in Dongguan. When the
movie ended, a child ran to the movie screen and kicked the screen with his hands and feet, but his parents did not stop him during the process.
Afterwards, the cinema staff found that the screen was damaged. After investigating and monitoring the scene, they immediately chose to call the police.
It was reported on the Internet that the cinema would claim 180,000 yuan from the parents of the child who caused the accident, but due to the high traffic in the cinema, the parties could not be found.
If you break a movie screen, do you have to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars?
Actually, what this little boy damaged was the Dolby Panorama CGS China giant screen.
needs to be imported from abroad, and the cost of construction plus shipping and installation, the loss of the theater is not only 180,000.
I don't know how the parents of the child who caused the accident will feel when they see the news. Will
seriously reflect on their own educational problems, or will they complain that the theater is making a fuss and the claims are too high, so that they dare not take the initiative to bring their children to surrender? We have no way of knowing
for the time being, but it is certain that this parent is lacking in the education of their children.
Children are like killing children. Behind every bear child, there is a bear parent fueling the flames.
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Have you ever read a video of an uncle flying a dragon-shaped kite on the grass, which was torn down by many bear children.
As you can see in the video, the kite made by the uncle himself is very beautiful. At first glance, it took a lot of thought and time to complete it.
But just when he was collecting the kite, it unexpectedly appeared.
The children swarmed up, some dragged the dragon's head, some dragged the dragon's tail, some jumped up and pulled a kite, and some were picked up by their parents to catch... Shouting to these children and their parents: "Don't move, don't move, I beg!"
But it was useless, the kite was violently pulled down, the line was torn off, and obviously it could no longer fly.
According to the insider, the kite took half a year to build, and it has won an award. Before putting it out, I greeted the surrounding parents, but it was still damaged by the bear children when I put it down. .
In this video, what is even more chilling is the parents who watch and admire their children's "fighting power" while their children are pulling kites.
It is a father's fault to not teach a child, and raising an uneducated child is a big mistake.
The most terrifying parents in the world just call their child's destructive behavior a release of nature, call their child's lack of education as curiosity, and beautify their child's wickedness as "he is still a child".
This time, you don't care about pulling the kite; the next time you hurt someone, you don't ask; when the child causes a bigger disaster and needs to be punished by social rules, you can't control it even if you want.
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I once read a story about a bear child who attempted murder on Zhihu.
The incident happened in a subway station in Beijing in 2016. A little boy kept jumping and running, making a fuss when he saw a girl eating chicken chops next to him.
So he pointed at the girl and said to his mother: "Mom, I want to eat chicken chops!" The little boy really listened, and shouted to the girl, "I want to eat chicken chops."
The little boy made a fuss again, shouting that he wanted to eat chicken chops. His mother was a little embarrassed, so he dragged the little boy to comfort him and said that he would buy it for him.
Unexpectedly, when the subway was about to arrive at the station, the little boy suddenly shook off his mother's hand and pushed the girl who was eating chicken chops forward.
Because there is no guardrail in front, the girl is about to be pushed off the platform, and the subway is about to come.
Fortunately, at this dangerous moment, someone next to me grabbed the girl's arm in time and pulled the girl back.
In just a few seconds, the girl experienced the front line of life and death, almost walking through the gate of hell.
Everyone present was taken aback. The girl who was pushed was pale and trembling, showing how much psychological impact this incident had on her.
But what about the pushing boy? He was quickly pulled onto the subway by his mother, and disappeared in the carriage without leaving a single "sorry".
In this story, the vicious heart of the little boy and his wicked behavior made many people tremble with fear.
What I think is even more terrifying is that the first thing that the little boy's mother thinks of in this situation is to escape, to escape with the child, and refuse to bear any responsibility.
The little boy did not get the punishment and education he deserved, but instead escaped a "calamity" because of his inaction mother.
I think that this "robbery" will come back to the children sooner or later. After all, under this kind of education, can there still be kind and upright children?
By then, parents will no longer have the ability and qualifications to defend their children's faults, and all the bad consequences will be gnawed by the children themselves.
We always say one sentence: "The most outrageous thing in the world is probably that parents don't need exams".
When the three views of children have not yet been formed, they may rely on their instinct to do some "bad" things, hurt others, and become "bear children" that everyone hates.
But if parents find out this situation, but do not seriously correct their children's behavior, let the children understand right and wrong, this kind of "evil" will accompany the children for a lifetime.
The upbringing of a child reflects the face of the family behind him.
Parents who indulge their children to do bad things should have the consciousness to pay for the evil they sow in the future.
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