Yesterday, there was a storm here in Guangzhou.
Is the storm good?
The storm destroyed many things.
However, I found that after the storm, the air was exceptionally fresh, the vegetation became more verdant, the whole world was cleansed and renewed, and the entire nature exuded a vibrant atmosphere.
Or, the effect of the storm can be better described as devastating.
Thousands of sails passed by the side of the sunken boat, and thousands of spring trees were in front of the diseased trees. Nature is always being destroyed and reborn.
The same is true in life.
Without troughs, there is no high; without setbacks, there is no growth; without suffering, there is no maturity; without failure, there is no reflection; without pain, there is no anger; without self-discipline, there is no freedom.
Without broken love, without betrayal, without deception, without heartache, without despair, how can one understand true love.
How can one understand success without failure, without poverty, without despair, without heartache, without seeing through.
Only when you have lost can you understand the importance of possession; only when you have experienced poverty can you understand the importance of making money; only when you are down and out can you understand the importance of hard work.
If you miss it, you miss it. There is no use in complaining. The most sensible way is to accept it.
Your current situation is the result of all the choices you have made in the past. You are your choice.
Regrets are of no use, and regrets are of no use. Accept your past, grasp the present, and create the future.
As long as a person wakes up, it is never too late to work hard. These are not words of comfort, this is the truth.
Yang Benfen 60html He didn’t start writing until he was 3 years old, and he didn’t publish his first book until he was 80. Grandma Moses only started painting when she was 380. Is it too late for you to get ahead of them?
Again, there is no optimal answer in life.
It is not necessarily better to become famous at a young age than to become a late bloomer.
The person who said "become famous early" is Zhang Ailing. She became famous in Shanghai at the age of 20. She is definitely a representative figure who became famous at a young age. However, her life was not happy. In her first marriage, she worked as the mistress of a scumbag man. Then the scumbag divorced his wife and married her. Later, the scumbag turned to Wang Jingwei and became a traitor. Later, her husband fell in love with a younger nurse and abandoned her. Got her. I feel like this is retribution. She can be a mistress instead of someone else, but doesn’t she know that someone else can be a mistress instead of her? Since a man can divorce his wife for you, he can definitely divorce you for another woman. Since you choose to like a morally corrupt person, you should bear the consequences.
When Zhang Ailing was 36 years old, she was impressed by a 65-year-old American playboy Lai Ya and married him. After becoming pregnant, Zhang Ailing chose to have an abortion because Lai Ya had no money or energy to raise a child. After her second marriage, Zhang Ailing became the nanny of her elderly and sick husband, taking care of him for 11 years until his death, and her life was always difficult. After that, Zhang Ailing lived alone and rarely contacted relatives and friends. Finally, she died alone in a low-cost apartment in the United States.
Zhang Ailing’s life has verified the saying: A person is the result of all his choices. Since a person chooses to only care about love and not care about others, and only care about love and not care about the country, he will naturally be abandoned by others and the country.
Literature has no national boundaries, but writers have their own motherland.
During the Republic of China, Lu Xun and Zhang Ailing were two towering figures in the literary world. Lu Xun fought for his country and nation all his life and died with all his strength. He fought with his pen as a weapon and was known as the "soul of the nation." Zhang Ailing only cared about herself and her love all her life. In her eyes, the war of aggression was just a background for love novels, so she could only die alone in an apartment in a foreign country. What
chooses is what you get. You are your choice.
