Which is more important, the love that comes from the heart or the love that stays in the physical stage? This is a myth that comes from a lot of people. For couples who come to the studio for consultation, their partners may also have similar problems.
This topic may make some people influenced by traditional thinking feel more sensitive. However, with the advancement of social science and culture, we have a deeper understanding of the relationship between love and sex.
Love has been a spiritual pursuit that people yearn for since ancient times. But at that stage of society, it was still unclear why love occurred. In fact, love mostly comes from the series of effects of dopamine secreted by humans in the brain. When love is strong, demand naturally arises. This is not dirty and unreasonable as some of us think.
You can observe that the harmonious and harmonious relationships between many couples are derived from the two-way results of the mental and physical levels. Some of my students suffered from relationship problems due to a lack of physical love, which then led to more serious problems.
So I want to believe that psychology and physiology are two complementary functions.
The crystallization of love needs to be completed physiologically. Without love at the psychological level, there is no difference between it and animals. Therefore, I will remind students who have obstacles that psychology and physiology are equally important. Your physical obstacles must be caused by your relationship, and psychological changes will slowly accumulate to form physical obstacles. This is why psychological counseling combined with physical training can finally solve this kind of obstacle problem. At first, students didn’t understand that if I had a problem I could just take some medicine, but in the end I found it was useless. Medicine can solve your basic and pathological problems. It won’t solve your relationship and psychological barriers. This is why I don't advocate medications for these types of psychogenic disorders. Because in the end we need to return to our psychological roots.
I can't answer for you which one is more important, psychology or physiology. From my point of view, both are important, and they promote each other. I suggest that you don't ignore one.
I am Yazhu Tian from the center of Yaxing. I am the spokesperson for my happiness career. I provide one-to-one customization and professional solutions to various problems in my partner's life!
