01 Where to get sour when vinegar, where to get sour when salt
The previous article mentioned that after reading a Chinese medicine doctor, I realized that the cause of my daughter was a cold and fever, which means that the child was a tachycardia checked in the psychology department of a large hospital. Various somatic depression and depressive symptoms were caused by a cold.
Doctor Li from the traditional Chinese medicine clinic asked the child’s physical symptoms: Have you been unable to run in the past year? I feel short of breath as soon as I run? I feel that my body can't bear it? Do you often feel hot and want to eat iced food? Do you sometimes fail to listen to the course, feel irritable and even lose memory?
The doctor pointed out that the child's physical reaction was not only that his daughter nodded frequently, but even I was surprised to be sure that the child had these symptoms.
In the first half of the semester of junior high school, my daughter asked me to help her ask for leave from the teacher, saying that she could not run anymore, and she felt very uncomfortable when she ran.
I didn’t understand at the time, and I thought why this child became more and more charming as he grew older, and how could he not participate in physical exercise? How can my body bear such a heavy learning task in junior high school? Of course I wouldn't ask for leave for her.
Now that I think about it, the child must have felt very uncomfortable at that time and felt that he could not communicate with the teacher, so I asked me for help, and I easily refused.
I have been preventing my child from drinking ice water, thinking that ice drinks are really unfavorable to the girl's physical development, but I know that my stoppage is ineffective. There are living expenses for living on campus in the middle of the evening study. This child takes advantage of all the opportunities to drink ice drinks on my back.
Western medicine doctor at Sunshine Hospital said that all these characteristics are clinical manifestations of somatic dysfunction. In the view of traditional Chinese medicine, these clinical manifestations have root causes, and what needs to be solved is the root cause problems.
Where is the sourness of vinegar, where is the salt, where is the salt, Depression clinical manifestations, the one I found was a small cold.
It seems that if you have a cold, if you are developing teenagers, you really need to use traditional Chinese medicine to adjust it. Balance of yin and yang should be a more reliable thing for children's physical and mental health.
According to my understanding, a small cold is treated with a drip, which is not only the virus, but also the emotions behind the virus and the emotions caused by physical discomfort caused by the virus.
02/Super pressure from various factors
When my daughter transferred from a private primary school to a public junior high school, she was very unacceptable to the teaching philosophy of public schools.
Private primary schools advocate humanized management and advocate independent thinking and creative thinking. What public junior high schools need is test scores and implement cramming teaching. After my daughter took the exam twice, she began to get tired of learning.
In fact, she did not do much at the end of the first semester, but she just didn't like the environment of public schools and the teaching methods here.
Compared with the test scores, she also advanced five places at the end of the period, but this may have exhausted all her expectations for junior high school study and life, so my daughter began to get sick of school.
My daughter’s cold in the first semester of junior high school is not a problem. Whether it is caused by viruses or emotional aversion to learning, it is impossible to determine whether it is caused by emotional aversion to learning. The result is really a bit serious after more than a year.
In the first half of the semester of junior high school, my daughter asked for leave on the grounds of being unwell.
From now on, my daughter refused to go to school every now and then, and my ex-husband and I were very anxious about this.
During this period, my relationship with my ex-husband was neither lukewarm nor hot. I really hate him for drinking big drinks with a group of drinkers for nothing, and I have almost no interest in communicating with him on education issues.
In the summer of 2020, in the rented suite for warehouses, the things moved from the training school were basically sold almost.
I carpetted the place and tidied it into a normal office space, but I had very little business. My ex-husband said that his partner wanted to find a place to work, so I sublet the place to them.
I had almost nothing to do after I had to deal with the school’s stuff. The sales of the salt company were only one or two customers who were still selling the goods.
I didn’t want to be decadent, so I took some physical, mental and spiritual education courses, and looked for opportunities to make a comeback.
It is said that this kind of course can stimulate people's internal motivation. My former school teacher worked here.
The teacher here teaches us that our cognition from childhood to adulthood determines our behavior and leads to our life results. Therefore, only by changing our own behavior patterns can we change our own destiny.
The teacher who helped me analyze my own state said: Only by changing my own behavior can I get back with my ex-husband, only by getting back with him, loving each other with the people around me, and having love to nourish the children's emotions can I get better. I believed this, so I tried my best to change my mind, try my best to eliminate the disgust of my ex-husband drinking heavily, and try my best to accept his behavioral pattern.
So my ex-husband and I began to ease from a pool of stagnant water to a slight wave.
We began to pay attention to our daughter’s behavior and began to put pressure on her to study hard.
My daughter caught a cold, so we hurried back to school after giving her the injection, as if the future of the child was lost after a quarter of an hour.
and later, the ex-husband spent the money he saved for two years to run a private school for his child. However, at this time, my daughter was already very difficult to communicate. She looked like she was "showing up" to the end and refused to go to school to study. Her ex-husband was so angry that he beat her.
My daughter said I would die if I forced me again.
Everything has its source. I can't remember where the vinegar starts sour. The third year of junior high school starts, and my daughter asks to be hospitalized and leave school.
03/Who is right
Doctor Li asked my daughter: "After the cold is cured, do you often feel hot and want to eat cold things? Do you feel like you can't run in physical education class? You get panting when you run?"
Daughter nodded repeatedly and said yes.
I added that when she was in the hospital's psychology department, she was often found to have tachycardia and had a soothing injection. The psychologist said this is a manifestation of somatic depression.
Dr. Li, a Chinese medicine outpatient clinic, said: "The normal body temperature of a girl in is around 36.5 degrees. Your daughter is 37 degrees, which is relatively low fever. Her tongue coating is blue and her tonsils are red, and the inflammation has not been eliminated. Her low fever is definitely not comfortable, and even accompanied by back muscle pain, tachycardia leads to exercise disorders. She is panting as soon as she runs, and she is seriously unable to keep up with the team. After a long time, she doesn't know what the comfort state of her body should be. Long-term physical discomfort can also cause psychological and emotional discomfort."
My daughter said yes.
The symptoms mentioned by the doctor are correct, but this child has no normal social interaction because of a cold. I really can't take it correctly if he has a mental illness.
After all, the psychologist of the Sunshine Fusion returned from studying in the United States. People said that the child was a mental illness, but Chinese medicine doctor Li judged that she was a sequelae of a cold. Who is right?
Anyway, no matter who says it right, the treatment is right.
I bought Chinese medicine and went back to boil it, but my daughter refused to drink it again after drinking it once, because it was too bitter, but her body was indeed relieved of hotness.
There is an extremely important point here, that is, the daughter no longer thinks she is somatic depression. The most effective thing is that Dr. Li, a Chinese medicine doctor, gave her a reason to stop making bad food.
04/Is it really a problem of karma?
Before my daughter went to the hospital, my ex-husband had already left my house and lived in the office suite he sublet me for the warehouse.
My ex-husband and I have been together for 27 years, got married for 16 years, divorced for five years, and had not remarried for more than five years when he came back, and moved out and officially separated for less than half a year.
In the last six years, I tried my best to get along with him because of the mental state of the two children. However, we were neither happy, the fate was over, and we finally broke up.
The answer given to me by the spiritual tutor is that there is something wrong with our family’s karma. I have made a lot of efforts to do this and have successively refused male pursuits other than my ex-husband, but the children did not get better if I did this.
Finally, the Chinese medicine gave this answer, and I suddenly got the idea. I felt that it was because I had errors in my understanding of the world. I needed to be myself well and not suppress my spiritual growth just like self-sacrifice because of the growth of my children. I began to doubt the kidnapping of me by the so-called family karma problem.
So far, I began to accept the olive branch of men who are good to me, other people, who are favored by me.
The so-called karma is just a by-product of our emotions and the insecurity that cannot handle intimate relationships well.
We are brave enough to pursue our quality of life, fucking karma without karma, and I believe everything will be fine.
