A young girl came to the famous psychologist clinic and told the doctor about a shadow of her childhood, which made me, kindergarten teacher, deeply touched me, .
She said that when she was in kindergarten, the kettle on the windowsill of the classroom was poured down and she wanted to help the kettle up. Just when she touched the kettle, the teacher came in and criticized her without asking the reason, blaming her for knocking the kettle down. She wanted to explain with grievance, but the teacher not only did not listen to her explanation, but also told other children that the children who saw her knocking the kettle raised their hands, but unexpectedly, all the children raised their hands, and even saw that they were not her knocked them up. The teacher severely criticized her for being an honest and good child. It was such a thing that made her hate her teacher and distrust her companions from then on.
When I saw this, I felt inexplicably sad. I couldn't help but think that many naughty princes in the class often faced the teacher's severe criticism. Sometimes the teacher's random catchphrases may also be a kind of harm to them.
I can’t help but remember when my child came back to imitate the teacher’s quotes and expressions. Sometimes it makes the family laugh, especially the kind of slamming the table and yelling: It’s going to die [laughing and crying], I wonder if your child has ever met it? Actually, I know this is just the catchphrase of some teachers.
The child has a certain memory when he is in kindergarten, especially some profound memories will accompany her throughout her life, just like this young girl, her distrust of her friends and her hatred for her teachers, accompanied her entire youth.
Our school is a public kindergarten. Most of the children received from rural areas, and many of them were left-behind children. Their behavioral habits were almost the same as those of grandparents. They were sometimes used to the fullest, but you still couldn't say it, scold it, or beat it, because today's educational forms forced teachers to put down the ruler, but is this really good?
I want to say that education is going in two directions. No matter which side is working alone, it is indispensable for schools, families, and children. Friends, what do you think? Have you ever cared about your child’s performance in school?
