It is said that autistic children are children of stars, flashing alone in the dark night sky. Children with autism are accompanied by intellectual disabilities and ADHD, which is fatal to the family. Many families have divorced due to the education of children with autism.
Some autistic children cannot speak, chew, express their needs, and have poor self-care ability. The fees outside rehabilitation institutions are generally high, and the financial pressure caused to ordinary families can be imagined. Moreover, this disease cannot be cured in one or two days, but a period of long-term treatment and rehabilitation. Many parents once lost the courage to survive.
Autistic children think it is abnormal in the eyes of others and often suffer from strange looks from others. In fact, autistic children are not fools, but they don’t know how to communicate with others. In this case, parents should need patience.
Rehabilitation treatment for children with autism requires a long-term plan, and different personal rehabilitation plans need to be customized according to the characteristics of the child, and this plan requires the persistence and efforts of parents and children in years.
Children with autism should undergo repeated language, cognitive and behavioral training, and persist every day. Persistence in daily progress is the greatest success.
For example, if the child is active and has sleep disorder , then we will give full play to the child's advantages of being active, such as playing skipping rope with him , playing pulleys, playing table tennis, shuttlecock kicking , etc., insist on accompanying the child to try various sports. During the process of accompanying him, he will slowly teach him to let him like his favorite sports, and then slowly learn to let him exercise independently.
Some autistic children are more sensitive to sounds and are very afraid of the sizzling sound of cooking. But if the child likes to play with water, then continue to play to his hobbies and let the child participate in helping wash vegetables first, slowly adapt to the kitchen environment, and then slowly teach him how to cook and cook, so that he will no longer be afraid of the kitchen. Persistence day after day, let the child like to cook and cook, and then let the child complete it himself.
Children with autism generally lack the awareness of rules and do not like to wait. Especially when going to supermarkets with a lot of crowds, they will run to the front to jump into the line. We can only instill social rules in their children. When cooking every day, you need to buy groceries. You have to take your children to the supermarket together. Let the children constantly explain the shopping process and let the children identify the products first. Then let the child go shopping slowly, and let the child learn to identify the names of dishes and walk the zebra crossing after passing the traffic light. At the beginning, he took the child to practice repeatedly, and then finally let him go and try it out for the child.
Although autistic children will learn very slowly and make progress very slowly, autistic children need more patience and persistence. When one day, the child will call you "Dad and Mom" kindly, he will go to the supermarket and vegetable market to buy vegetables, cook a meal you like, and serve it on the table and call you up to have a meal, you will be extremely relieved and happy.
Because your child is the best!
