There is a professional term in emotional science called Jin O (Kin o). A rich emotion can be conveyed through physical contact.
In ancient times, emperors had the saying that they had changed clothes when they woke up in the morning. The concubines would use the practice of getting up in the morning to serve the emperor to change clothes to gain the feeling of being interdependent after close contact with the emperor.
Organizing clothes will make a man have a strong physical reaction, and he will have a feeling of intimacy, feeling that he is interdependent and in love with women.
Sometimes when we watch TV series, we will see some more accomplished men. When they wake up in the morning, their lover will put on their suits. They just need to stretch out their hands, and then the woman will tidy up the clothes for him.
Under such psychological effect, we can help boys take a picture of dust and tidy up the corners of their clothes. This is a way for women to make intimate contact with their limbs with the help of clothes.
Boys are more unintentional about physical contact with girls. For example, when crossing the road, holding hands, and hugging their waists with the premise of female safety are all out of the mentality of protecting girls, but the two parties will have a subtle relationship during the physical contact between the two sexes.
People rarely think about the physical contact between girls and boys. However, the physical contact between boys and girls is different. Once the girl feels that you are deliberately touching her body, her defense mechanism will be immediately turned on, thus creating defense.
We often see some men who want to hold a girl's hand during dates, or even touch a part of her body. This often causes girls to be disgusted, which is the reason.
Therefore, the physical contact between men and women needs to be carried out on a reasonable premise. Before this, you must understand the emotional stage where both parties are in and give them full respect.
For example, a boy can first try to take the girl to the direction of the roadway, then do an action, hug her waist with her hands, and then say, "You go inside, it's not safe outside." This action is both gentlemanly and intimate, making her want to rely on you more.
People will reflect people's thoughts and express people's emotions through coordinated activities of each part. There is a subject called body linguistics, which analyzes a person's inner world through every movement of the body, such as facial expressions, sitting posture movements, etc.
People can lie and can also lie extremely perfectly, but human body language cannot do this. The human body language is a very natural reflection of the inner world. If you hate someone, you won’t like to get close to him. You will sit far away from him and put your hands on your legs.
Conversely, if you have a good impression of a person, you will move your body as close as possible to him, and your feet will be in the direction of his sitting, and your hands will be placed around your legs.
body language expression is simpler and more direct. You go to the library to read a book, and there is an empty space next to it. At this time, a stranger comes over and wants to sit down. You will naturally move in the opposite direction, because this person is very strange to you. If you are walking over to your friend or lover, you will subconsciously wave to him and pat the seat beside you to signal him to sit down.
For men and women, they can also infer their relationship from their sitting posture, their distance between bodies, and their legs and hands. When people in love sit side by side, the distance between their bodies and bodies will not exceed ten centimeters, and the distance between their legs will not exceed five centimeters. For couples or couples with mutated relationships, their physical distance will not exceed twenty centimeters. Apart from twenty centimeters, there is a distance between strangers. No matter how unloved the couple, they will be familiar with each other's body, and their body movements will echo each other.
The body language of the person you love will be particularly rich, and one party will especially like to have physical contact with the other party. To verify whether a man has feelings for you, you will know when you touch him. If his body subconsciously shrinks, it means that he has no other intention to love you, or he has no intention of loving you. If his body does not avoid it and your body can feel his body temperature, then wait for him to confess to you. Body language will not lie.
If you say too many love words, you will look pale, and everything you say is like a dialogue in a TV series. Try to use your limbs to express your love. When your lover comes home, give him a hug. When he is sad, pat his shoulder or touch his head. It is hundreds of times more effective than if you ask questions in a long and short manner.
or above is excerpted from "Emotional Psychology" ( He Lijuan ). Scientists cannot invent drugs that keep love fresh forever. The only solution can be to learn how to get along with both sexes. How to transition from love to marriage and maintain the eternal vitality of this relationship is a kind of knowledge. Friends, let us learn together and work hard for a happy marriage #Ordos headline##Learn some psychological knowledge every day##Learn some psychology every day##Read some psychology every day##Reading#
