Recently, the video of "a 17-year-old autistic boy in Shenzhen has won awards after practicing piano hard for 13 years" has become a hot topic.
This handsome young man named Shu Haifeng was selected as the "Lang Family Army" with excellent results in 2018 and received personal guidance from piano master Lang Lang . Not only did he perform on the same stage with Lang Lang many times, he also won many awards in many piano competitions.
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What everyone unexpected is that the shining "other people's child" in this video is an autistic patient.
After his deeds spread, all families of autistic children saw hope and refreshed their understanding of autistic children. As long as parents give their children more care and companionship, as long as society gives them more understanding and acceptance, autistic children can shine in a certain field like ordinary people.
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Autism, also known as autism, is a representative disease of a widespread developmental disorder.
The main symptoms of autistic children are: communication disorders, not talking, no eye contact, and no like to interact with others. In other words, they are enclosed in their own world and it is difficult for others to enter. They flash alone like stars in the night sky. Therefore, children with autism also have a beautiful nickname - the child of the stars.
However, although the world of autistic children is difficult to enter, as long as we devote enough understanding and love to get along with them, we can knock on his heart and enter his planet. Just like Laura in "Rolla's Diary: Entering Lilu's World", she entered the world of Lilu, autistic girl in her unique way and became good friends with her.
"Rolla's Diary" author Baptiste Chaperon was born in France. He is curious about the world and likes to tell stories to children with innocent brushstrokes.
"Rolla's Diary" is a beautiful and emotional children's novel . The book tells the little things about her and autistic child Lilu from the perspective of an eight-year-old girl. This is a warm and powerful healing story.
1, "a little special" Lilu
Rola met Lilu, who was about her age in the park. Rola was very happy and wanted to make friends with Lilu, but she found that the girl "a little special".
Lilu has beautiful hair, but she never tied it up; she has big green eyes, but unfortunately she is always covered by her hair; she likes to stand blankly, stare at a place without moving, like a statue; she always doesn't speak, doesn't like communicating with others, and doesn't like people to touch her.
When Rola and Lilu met for the first time, the lively and cheerful Rola took the initiative to come forward to say hello, but no matter what she said, Lilu seemed to be unable to hear it, and was only immersed in her own world. When she tried to use her body touch to attract the other person's attention, Lilu screamed in horror.
2. Patience and dedication made Lilu's heart slowly open
Loula Although she was frightened by Lilu's scream, she took a few steps back, but did not turn around and leave because of this, but sat not far from Lilu, quietly observing Lilu's every move.
When Rola saw Lilu sitting on the sand pile, shaking back and forth, entertaining herself, she also followed suit and started playing together. Rora fell to the sky because she shook too fast, but she didn't expect that this action would make Lilu laugh.
Lilu's smile inspired Rola. As Rola repeated shaking and deliberately falling, Lilu's laughter became louder and louder, and Rola laughed happily. Amid the laughter, the hearts of the two people slowly approached.
The kind Rolla wrote in her diary: "I like to make friends laugh. As long as they are happy, I can do whatever I can!"
3. Understanding, acceptance and respect made Rolla and Lilu become good friends
Rolla knew from her mother that Lilu was an autistic child, but she didn't care, just like she wrote in her diary: Autism is just a word that only adults can use, no matter it! What she cares about is how to make Lilu communicate with herself happier.
For this "a bit special" friend, Rola slowly understood Lilu's "special" and accepted her different behaviors.
Rolla found that Lilu likes to look at pictures, and she was willing to speak when she was looking at pictures. In order to communicate better with Lilu, Rola drew a lot of cards, drawing the games they usually play together: blowing bubbles, throwing dolls, slapping flies, learning the sound of fire trucks...
With the help of one card after another, Rola and Lilu communication became smoother and smoother.
Slowly...
Not only did Lilu receive Rola's hug, she also knew to take the initiative to hug Rola, although her hug was just to gently lean her head against Rola's shoulder.
not only learned to wave when parting with Rolla, but also said goodbye, although he only said the word "see".
When Lola was even more excited, when she was crying, Lilu would take the initiative to hug and comfort her, and say softly: "Love you!"
4, written at the end
"Lola Diary" delicately describes the "special" of autistic children through the first-person narrative of an eight-year-old child, and uses pictures and texts to show readers the process of autistic children from resisting others to gradually accepting.
The process of two children from meeting each other and becoming good friends allows us to fully understand that a child with autism is "special" and also understand the correct way to communicate with them.
In addition, the book also gave us many cute cards to help us communicate with "Star's Children". If you have a "special friend" like Lilu, you might as well use these cards and follow Rolla to make friends with them.
