"Mr. Toad Goes to See a Psychologist" is an introductory book in psychology and is also a world-wide best-selling book, ranking among the top ten best-selling books for a long time. This issue is also the second time that Yuanchuan Online Reading Club organized a reading of this book. It will be led by Yao Yuan, a researcher at Yuanchuan Education Reading Research Institute who is good at combining professional knowledge of psychology, and a teacher who is studying at , , , psychologist at Beijing Normal University, and a graduate student in psychology at Beijing Normal University.
"Mr. Toad Goes to See a Psychologist" itself is easy to understand and is not difficult to read. It is suitable for readers of all ages to read. Under the guidance and guidance of the instructor, readers of all sizes paid attention to the two main lines of this book, and read and analyze them from the perspective of toads and the herons (psychologists), explore the differences between psychological counseling and ordinary consultation models, sort out the psychological symptoms of Mr. Toads and the psychological tools used by the herons, understand the children's self-psychological state, and combine life experience, cases and psychological model tools to ultimately achieve the purpose of self-improvement and self-regulation.
Purpose
1) First learn the basic model of psychological counseling and understand psychology-related knowledge;
2) Explore the relationship between childhood experience and personal style, and improve the pattern of getting along with children;
3) Practice self-improvement and self-regulation.
Teacher Du Xiaodan in the reading together: "Children's self-psychological state is built from the remains of our childhood, and contains all the emotions we experienced when we were young. The reaction of parents has a profound impact on the child, and this influence may dominate his life. The strongest emotions children experience in childhood will inevitably become their feelings as adults."
Teacher Shizuko also analyzes himself through reading "Dragging and playing happily, being arranged to do housework, etc." is an adaptive child's self-state.
Teacher Xiaoyan said that she is a mother of three children. When reading Chapters 6 and 7, she felt particularly immersive. While reading, she recalled how she got along with her children, what was wrong with the machine and how to adjust it. And truly understand "There are no trivial things in a child's childhood, you must take all aspects of the child seriously."
Teacher Chen Xuexia uses charts to sort out the differences between psychologists and ordinary doctors:
Teacher Zhou Xiaorong Complex annotations:
In addition, Teacher Yao Yuan uses iceberg model to explain the logical relationship behind readers' behavior, and helps readers understand this psychological tool through its own cases, which also opens the door to a new world for readers.
Student feedback
During the live discussion, Teacher Yao Yuan also invited three teachers to answer their thoughts on the two questions. Through thinking and interpretation of these two questions, Teacher Yao Yuan brought the seemingly profound psychology back to our lives, and also let everyone understand the differences between psychology and ordinary medicine.
Next, in the process of explaining this book, Teacher Yao Yuan incorporated a lot of psychological knowledge into it, and explained to everyone the chain of plots and psychological knowledge points in the book, such as what psychological symptoms Mr. Toad had appeared and what psychological tools did Dr. Heron use to solve the difficulties for Mr. Toad. By giving examples and comparisons, we can understand psychology more simply.
At the same time, Teacher Yao Yuan extracted the hidden knowledge point - Mr. Toad's incorrect self-analysis before being guided, and expanded the analysis of the reasons. Taking this as an example, he explained to everyone the important theory of psychology - Iceberg Theory , so that everyone can understand deeper psychological knowledge.After the live broadcast of
After everyone was still interested in the explanation of Teacher Yao Yuan's combination of many psychological knowledge points. They wanted to systematically learn psychology from Teacher Yao Yuan and follow Teacher Yao Yuan to learn subsequent psychology-related series.
