From the post-90s generation to the current generation of the 20s, society has undergone drastic changes. Parents' lifelong experience has gradually become a shackles for their children. Their dedicated education has left children suffering from psychological problems.
The reason is that is the "language barrier" between children and parents . Children's language skills are not developed, they have their own inner monologue, and parents have been using adult language to educate their children.
Parents who don’t understand their children’s language will tend to ignore the more important aspects of education. If they say it too lightly, they will be afraid of being useless. If they say it too seriously, they will be afraid of being hurt.
What should I do?
We need to understand children's psychology, we need to understand the characteristics and stages of children's psychological development, and we need to understand "children's language". Babies' cries, children's toys, children's games and body language are all telling us What signal is conveyed.
These signals are not expressed through the language of adults, because children's language and cognitive abilities have not yet been fully developed. When children are still young, understanding these non-verbal signals is likely to enter the child's heart. The only channel.
To this end, Simple Psychology Uni and the "International Psychotherapy Institute (IPI), the world's top precision therapy school" jointly created a training program for children's psychological problems "American Academy Child and Adolescent Psychoanalysis" "Training Project" allows counselors to improve their counseling capabilities in solving children's psychological problems in an all-round way.
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html With 52 years of professional training, what can we master?
After two years of professional training, we can thoroughly understand the psychology of children and adolescents, as well as the methods and skills of psychological counseling with these children. When
consults with children, unlike adults, in 2 years of systematic training, we will master how to understand "children's language" and how to communicate with children.
The first year of learning
Specifically, in the first year of study, we need to master the following three major consulting abilities through solid training:
01 Counseling abilities for different objects
In child psychotherapy , in addition to the child himself , sometimes it is also necessary to communicate and consult with important others to obtain their relationship support.
Therefore, we need to learn treatment ideas for different working objects. These objects include children of all ages, as well as roles that have an important influence on children: parents, schools, and institutions.
For example:
. For children with psychological problems, the ability to establish trust with the child. How should we deal with parents who are jealous of the relationship between their children and counselors 02 The ability to read children's language
Children's language is different from adults, especially Younger children often cannot express their feelings clearly externally, and they have not developed the ability to think rationally internally.
So we need to understand the simple language used by children, learn how to communicate with children, master the ability to build trust with children and understand their hearts.
Finally, we will also learn how to help parents understand too. Children, listen to children.
For example:
. Children like to play with specific toys and like to beat toys. Our ability to understand the meaning behind them. The ability to understand the meaning behind children's crying, hand and foot movements, and the words used, such as "red daddy, blue mommy" 03 Understand how children themselves and relationships affect children's abilities
As far as children's psychological development is concerned, the child's own characteristics, parental care, and the interaction between the two jointly determine the process of children's psychological development.
We cannot change the characteristics of a child, but we can understand his characteristics and attachment relationship. For parents, we can grasp the role and role of parents in the psychological development of their children. knows what is effective and what is problematic, so as to carry out effective intervention.
For example:
. What kind of attachment relationship does the child have with his or her parents? How do we deal with this attachment relationship?. What impact does parents’ sensitivity and satisfaction on their children have on their children, and our ability to deal with this impact. The second year of study
The second year of study will polish our theoretical and practical skills in more detail based on the original foundation.
Specifically, in the second year, we will master one major theory and two major practical abilities of
01 One major theory
Children and adolescents’ psychological development characteristics and work priorities
Children are in a stage of rapid psychological development and grow extremely fast, but this It also means that there will be changes every few years, and the previous stage is likely to have an impact on the later stage.
This requires us to understand the inner world of children of all ages, and pay attention to the growth problems that children may face at each stage, help them face and break through together, and avoid the spread of these problems as they grow up.
For example:
. Children in the oral stage will have various attitudes toward their mother's breasts, such as biting and rejecting. What exactly does it mean?. How do children in the anal stage somatize their psychological problems? 02 Two major practical capabilities
Practical capabilities 1: Targeted treatment technology for different symptoms
During the development process of children, due to their own characteristics and external influences, different problems will arise. In this section, we will master the of children and adolescents. Types of symptoms, causes, and how to treat different symptoms.
For example:
. To what extent is ADHD considered a child who doesn’t like to listen to lectures and has difficulty concentrating? How can we identify these symptoms?. If a child has nightmares and is often immersed in fantasy, what is the reason and how can we help the child deal with it? Practical Ability 2: Intervention Methods for the Impact of Couple Changes
The entire process of children's growth is arranged by their parents. Therefore, regardless of genetic factors, children's mental health almost all depends on the growth environment brought by their parents. At the core is the parent relationship.
For the socialization process of children, the first thing to internalize is the relationship between parents. The relationship between husband and wife can be said to be the prototype of all relationships among children.
Therefore, major changes in the relationship between husband and wife (divorce, reorganization, adoption, etc.) will have a huge impact on the children. We need to understand this impact and how to deal with it.
For example:
. Is the divorce of parents necessarily traumatic for the children? How should we determine the true impact of divorce on children?. Left-behind children often suffer from separation trauma. How should we help children get over this separation trauma? Children's treatment is important and urgent
Children's problems are not personal problems, but family issues and issues for the whole society.
From the post-90s to today, China’s traditional culture of loyalty and filial piety has been constantly challenged. This means that the friction between parents trained by traditional education and the new generation of children has become an anxiety for the entire era. The "2021-2022" public mental health report shows that 55.56% of visitors use consultation to heal their family of origin problems.
One parent even said: "If I had it to do over again, I would never clean myself up again or use my son as an excuse for the failure of my marriage. I have some regrets and it is really difficult to make up for it."
Problems with Children , if it can be solved in childhood, it is the urgent hope of parents, the healing of the entire family, and the antidote to the entire era.
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2 professional training, why is it worth joining?
Advantage 1: 9 top child psychotherapists, polishing the course for decades
course is jointly created by Simple Psychology Uni and the "International Top Psychotherapy Institute-International Psychotherapy Institute (IPI)", and is led by world-class teachers Give lectures in person and provide Chinese translation throughout the process.
Here, you can learn the most authoritative and systematic treatment courses in the field of children, and receive 81 hours of professional case online supervision. The supervision is provided by 9 teachers who take turns to teach , so that you can thoroughly master the treatment of children. Comprehensive consulting work.
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Advantage 2: small class teaching, full translation, and you can interact with the tutor during class
In order to ensure high-quality classroom effects and ensure that you can fully absorb classroom knowledge, project only enrolls students once every 2 years , the limit is 36 people at a time, and the deadline will be when full enrollment is reached. is taught in small classes throughout the course. You can interact with the instructor and ask questions during the class. The entire lecture is translated into Chinese by teacher Tiffany.
Tiffany holds a bachelor's degree from the University of California, Irvine, and a master's degree in psychological counseling from Peking University. Currently engaged in psychological counseling practice in Taiwan, with more than 7 years of experience in interpretation , and has served as group supervision and theoretical translation for many overseas counselors such as David Scharff.
Tiffany Main translator of the "American Cadet System Child and Adolescent Psychoanalysis Training 2-Year Program"
Advantage 3: graduation and credit hours dual certification certificate
Students who meet the standard after graduation can obtain an international certification certificate issued by the IPI Institute, and can be used as a professional training Background resume, you can also accumulate international certification training hours.
Advantage 4: Scholarship of 10,000 yuan and additional benefits
Students who meet the graduation requirements, graduate successfully, and have a top-5 overall performance will also receive a scholarship of 10,000 yuan each!
At the same time, students who join the 2-year children's intensive training program can also enjoy the following benefits for free:
project will start on on August 4, 2022. If you sign up at this stage, you can enjoy course discounts , and more course discounts and related information can be viewed by clicking [Read the original text] at the end of the article.
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