Have you ever had such an experience? 1. The more others praise you, the more timid you become; 2. The more others praise you, the more you feel that you have many shortcomings and that you are not worthy of such praise. 3. "Being praised" makes you feel very entangled and uncomf

Have you ever had such an experience?

1. The more others praise you, the more timid you become;

2. The more others praise you, the more you feel that you have many shortcomings and that you are not worthy of such praise.

3. "Being praised" makes you feel very entangled and uncomfortable.

They are actually reminding you that you need to overcome your inner inferiority.

There is a "monster" living in each of us. This "monster" has been threatening us, so as soon as we see its trace, we want to run away immediately. The "monster"

is actually the inferiority complex of "I'm not good enough".

When you hear others praising you, the "I'm not good enough monster" will jump out and make you feel scared, so you will tell yourself: I have many shortcomings and I am not that good. It seems that only after such self-suggestion can the "monster" in my heart disappear.

In fact, doing so will only make you feel inferior. The correct approach is that you need to have the courage to face the person who praises you and say "thank you" to him sincerely. Although you will feel uncomfortable inside and are not used to it, there will even be thousands of voices in your head shouting: "You are not good enough! He lied to you! He doesn't know your true face! Your shortcomings are "I didn't see it!"

You can smile at these voices and say: "I hear you."

Then feel within yourself and find the weak voice that you have always ignored: "What he said is true, you." It’s just that good.” Then accept it and acknowledge it.

I know that this requires a lot of courage and awareness for people who have suffered from an inferiority complex for a long time.

But if you were given a choice, would you rather be a slave to your own inertia and live in the shadow of low self-esteem all your life, or would you rather take the first brave step and make a change?

This is a decision that requires your own commitment. Come on

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