For many parents, how to communicate with rebellious children is a very tricky thing. Children in this period like to fight against their parents.
Improper handling may affect family relationships and even cause irreparable consequences. The child's rebellious period often means parents' confusion and troubles, and the child's depression and irritability.
During this period, the way parents treat their children will determine how the children will "give back" to their parents during their rebellious period. So how can parents correctly guide their children's rebellious behavior?
Henan psychological counselor Yang Jing: Are you still troubled by your child's rebellion? Let me teach you these three tricks!
1. Equal communication.
Parents often communicate with their children in a condescending way, or they condemn their children from a moral high ground. This is what makes children disgusted and rebellious.
should treat children as adults, communicate with children on an equal footing, pass on their opinions to children, and state their own reasons, and encourage children to also express their own thoughts and reasons.
Don’t rush to let your children accept it, but guide them to find evidence to support their own opinions. If the reasons are credible, we must learn to affirm the children, so that the children will accept their parents’ opinions when they are wrong.
Henan psychological counselor Yang Jing: Are you still troubled by your child's rebellion? Let me teach you these three tricks!
2. Spend more time with your children and give them more warmth.
Children need a lot of companionship and care from their parents as they grow up, but now many parents are signing up for various training classes for their children, fearing that their children will lose at the starting line, thereby neglecting the companionship that their children need most in their growth.
This will make children very disappointed and think that their parents do not love them, which will lead to the growth of rebellious psychology. Therefore, in daily life, children should be given more care and warmth and accompany their growth.
Play with your children and participate in their happiness, so that your children will listen to your opinions when you have conflicts. Companionship is the best education.
Henan psychological counselor Yang Jing: Are you still troubled by your child's rebellion? Let me teach you these three tricks!
3. Keep a calm mood and attitude.
During the rebellious stage, children have more inner thoughts, and sometimes do things that are difficult for parents to understand. If parents use violent emotions to oppose their children at this time, they will only get more rebellious.
Parents should stay calm when their children are going through a rebellious period, treat their children's rebellious behavior with a calm emotion and attitude, and do not express it directly in front of their children.
can not only bring closer the relationship between parents and children, but also help parents carry out educational work. It is very critical for parents to maintain a good mood and attitude at all times for children in their rebellious period.
Henan psychological counselor Yang Jing: Are you still troubled by your child's rebellion? Let me teach you these three tricks!
Henan Psychological Counseling Emotional Summary: When we mention children, we often think of how to raise children. But in fact, when we are cultivating our children, the children are also cultivating us, which is also the process of our own mental maturity.
The above are the psychological knowledge explained by Henan psychological counselor Yang Jing. I hope it will be helpful to everyone!
