In life, some lively and active children like to pursue excitement and always take risks to do some novel and weird things. Therefore, parents think that the children are too naughty, and they will stop them at best, or beat and scold them at worst. However, research from the Uni

In life, some lively and active children like to pursue excitement and always take risks to do some new and weird things. Therefore, parents think that the children are too naughty, and they will stop them at best, or beat and scold them at worst.

However, research from the University of Exeter in the UK found that children who spent more time playing adventurously had lower rates of anxiety and depression. Appropriate risky play provides children with learning opportunities and helps build children's resilience, thereby preventing psychological problems.

Therefore, it is not necessarily a bad thing for children to be naughty and adventurous sometimes. Adventurous children often have the courage to try, are not afraid of failure, have strong resistance to frustration, have a strong thirst for knowledge, and have a strong spirit of exploration. Frequent adventures can also help children experience a rich life and broaden their knowledge, making them more optimistic and confident. However, when children are young, they may lose their sense of control if they are too naughty and take risks, and they need guidance and supervision from their parents.

1. Let children have a bottom line in their minds. Taking risks does not mean acting recklessly. Children must be taught to form bottom-line thinking. They must not only keep the safety red line and not do things that threaten the safety of themselves or others, but also keep the moral bottom line and not do things that harm others and benefit themselves. Let children have a sense of awe and know what is risky and what is not.

2. It is the nature to care for children. Many times it is the nature of children to be playful and adventurous. Parents should follow nature and not be violent and suppressive. According to the Pandora's box effect, sometimes the more repressive a parent is, the more curious the child becomes and the more he or she wants to take risks. Before the child tries, parents should not jump to conclusions prematurely and dampen the child's enthusiasm.

3. Treat the failure of adventure with a guiding mindset. Many parents are worried that their children's risk-taking will lead to failure or make their children's lives take more detours. But in fact, even if children fail, their experience in dealing with setbacks is richer and their resistance to stress is also improved. Failure is the mother of success, and setbacks are also a valuable asset. Children can learn lessons from setbacks. The detours that should be taken should still be taken by the children themselves. Only by not being afraid of wind and rain, facing difficulties, and bravely going against the grain can you be born towards the sun.

4. Set up a stage to allow children to fully express their personality. is aimed at children who are energetic and adventurous, and parents must find an outlet for their vigorous energy. For example, you can take your children to exercise, mountain climbing, cycling, etc., and you can also guide your children in wilderness survival training. Children should be encouraged to try more "firsts" in their lives, including cooking for the first time, growing vegetables for the first time, giving a speech for the first time, working for the first time, etc. Parents can also support their children in challenging competitive activities.

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