Netizens ask:
More than half of the students can unlock the game anti-addiction system. What problems are reflected? Why does the system continue to improve and students always find a "hacking method"?
According to a CCTV reporter's investigation, some stores will not verify the age of the buyer during the process of selling the rental game account. Knowing that the buyer is a minor, it will not discourage it, and even use "non-prevention addiction" as a selling point. one. Many students told reporters that they often discuss with each other to find the loopholes in the anti-addiction system . From the launch of the anti-addiction system in 2007 to now, they can always find a solution in the face of the ever-improving system.
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tube heart camp reply:
For this matter, we I think that parents should be careful when their children cannot play with mobile phones.
Our Guanxin Camp receives visitors,Among families with school aversion, nine out of ten out of ten children who were absent from school had so-called Internet addiction problems, but the magical thing was that when we chatted with us, the children rarely took out their mobile phones and did not show "addiction."
We Guan Xinying believes that the child is not addicted to the Internet, he just doesn't know what to do, he has to find something to do.
After all, there are really too few people who like to learn and love to learn in life.
jokingly said that children who are born to like to learn and have high self-discipline have the same probability as winning the lottery.
Even the probability of a lottery ticket is higher. After all, the lottery ticket can be bought many times, and the child is born only once.
Based on our experience in consulting for so long, I have never seen that parent can solve a child's problem by "blocking".
In the most serious case, a parent sent his son to a school for quitting Internet addiction. The result was not only ineffective, but also caused the child to hate his parents and play games more severely after returning home.
When the father disciplined him again, the son and the father directly got involved. Both of them were injured. Fortunately, the mother persuaded him by the side.
"I didn't expect things to become like this.Going to that place didn't solve the internet addiction, but learned to fight instead. "Father said this to us, and he also felt very regretful.
Originally the child was unwilling to go to school, because he could not stand the strict management in the school, conflict with the teacher, and no support from the parents.
turned out to be home and the parents’ attitudes were very bad. When the parents and children are in an opposing relationship, naturally the children are not willing to listen to their parents.
span In schools that quit internet addiction, the management is stricter, the relationship between teachers and children is more compulsory, and parental support is not available when conflicts occur, which intensifies the antagonism of parent-child relationship, and the problem is naturally not resolved.
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We don’t think it’s a problem that we don’t go to the game to study, and we don’t think it’s a problem that we don’t care about playing games. Classes, etc.
The main problem is not the problem with playing games, but the bad parent-child relationship.
, the game is not a real gameThe parent-child relationship is the problem, it's just the differences in the attitudes of the parent-child towards the game, which externalize the contradiction.
The visitors we have received before have no Internet addiction problems and other problems, such as children going out to play and prohibiting social interaction, children indulging in writing novels, parents tearing up books, children like two-dimensional Throw away your hands and so on.
After the parents do this, will the children become as obedient as the parents expect?
No child will succumb to mandatory parental discipline, and the problems have become more serious.
For children who are aversion to school and do not go to school, when their parents cut off the channel of playing with mobile phones, the probability of children experiencing compulsive behaviors, self-harm behaviors, sleep disorders, etc. rises sharply. Isn't that problem more serious than playing with a mobile phone?
Of course, Guanxinying does not want to call it a child’s problem, but thinks that after the child can’t channel his emotions through the phone, the child will put all his power against his parents.
In other words, children can distract themselves by playing mobile phones, but after mobile phones can’t play, the parent-child relationship that is already in a confrontational state becomes worse.
In this case, the child does not have a mobile phone to play.The child's energy is all placed on the confrontation with the parents.
There are many ways of confrontation. It is difficult for one person to follow one's heart, but there are 10,000 ways to make one person unhappy.
Therefore, parents should be careful when their children cannot play with their mobile phones, because all their energy will be spent on dealing with their parents.
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