Earlier I bought a box of chewing gum for my child to eat. I showed it to the child and his mother saw it and was severely approved.
I tried to explain to her. I told my child a damn story, a chewing gum story:
that day, I played with my child downstairs. I was 5 years old and went to kindergarten this year. He said he was tired and didn’t have enough to eat at night (this is a pretext). He said he was going to the supermarket downstairs to buy something. I responded to him and took him to the supermarket. He ran directly to the first shelf and took a gum bottle. , I'm a bit puzzled, he has never eaten gum before? I usually ask for Otter eggs or chocolate chip cookie chips. I said that I don’t want this, and children can’t eat this. He said firmly, "I just want this, don't want those."
I asked him, this is chewing gum, have you eaten it? He said that I had eaten it, and I had eaten it at his classmate Tongtong's house. I was a little surprised that he had eaten it! His classmates have eaten it too, and I then asked him, do you know how to eat it? He nodded confidently, "I know, chew it in your mouth. It's delicious
. Oh, I am out of date. The child has mastered it. I am still worried that he will swallow it. I ate it at Tongtong’s home once, and he wanted to try again. I bought him a small bottle, and he opened one and chewed it in his mouth. I asked him if it was delicious? He said it was delicious and chewy. , He began to ask 100,000 why, why is the gum so chewy? What kind of gum can't be eaten? Why is the gum rectangular, or square? Why is the gum so sticky? Why do adults like to eat gum?...
I will explain to him one by one, I have to let him know, what kind of stuff is this, what are the characteristics of this stuff, what is the role of this stuff, what should be paid attention to when eating this stuff He should have understood a little bit of the matter, and some of it has become a breeze.I said that I could only eat 2 pills a day. He said that I would eat 3 pills a day, but he ate 3 pills that night. When I ate, I fell to the floor and took another one.
At the slide, I said I would eat one for my dad. He generously took one for me. I chewed him up and blew a bubble for him. He was surprised, wow, Why can chewing gum blow bubbles! ? He asked me to blow a big one to show him, I asked him for another one, and blow a bigger bubble, he also wanted to learn, let me teach him, I told him: Chew the gum first, Then flatten him with your tongue, and then put him on the tip of your tongue with your teeth against it, and you can blow it into bubbles. He also tried to practice, but this is difficult for the 5-year-old.
A bottle of chewing gum. He eats one in the morning and one or two after school in the afternoon. Now there is half of it. I don’t know if he can learn to blow bubbles. I don’t know if he will. This bottle of chewing gum was all eaten in the end. I don’t know what new fame he can make with chewing gum. I don’t know about it, but what I can confirm is that he will eventually abandon him like other things. When chewing, when you can't blow bubbles, when something new appears.
A bottle of chewing gum. He eats one in the morning and one or two after school in the afternoon. Now there is half left. I don’t know if he can learn to blow bubbles. I don’t know. Will he eat this bottle of gum at the end? I don’t know what new fame he can make with gum. I don’t know about it, but what I can confirm is that he will end up putting it like other things. He abandoned, when there was only chewing, when no bubbles were blown out, when something new appeared.
This is the whole story. I almost blocked the child’s desire to explore and curiosity because of the notion that “chewing gum is not suitable for children to eat, it is dangerous” and hindered his chance to practice his tongue (maybe this can also help him. Practice Pinyin at the same time), which prevents him from realizing that he can’t make it easy for himself and add trouble to others.This kind of trash that is thrown away will make it difficult for the cleaning lady to deal with. We are parents, we should give him the correct education, but we should not try to replace children, each child is an independent and complete individual, as long as he is given a natural growth environment, you don’t have to worry, he will not grow into one. A tree, maybe even a big tree!
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