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"Do you think personality is inherited innately or acquired?" Toda asked himself. This is a habit he developed since childhood, or a special skill he has acquired innately. He can always talk to his inner heart with an objective identity. On every night when you can be alone, Toda either observes his words and deeds, or puts himself in his shoes and experiences other people's behavior.
This is quite interesting and beneficial.
On this night, Toda raised new questions. He reflected on the environment in which he grew up, and the family members who could spend time together seemed to have an introverted personality. Does this show that the acquired words and deeds have formed an introverted personality? But this also reflects the genetic possibility of introverted personality.
Because Toda has lacked his own room since he was a child, this has formed his sensitivity to privacy and desire for private space. This example effectively reflects the impact of acquired environment on personal personality, but children who have their own room since childhood may not develop an extroverted personality. It can be seen that this example is still relatively thin and is not the complete answer to the question.
Toda feels that innate inheritance should be just a bias in character, or talent. The specific acquired environment and experience do not necessarily completely determine the formation of a personality, but may only promote or change the innate potential personality.
This is like the dispute between the advantages and disadvantages of introverted and extroverted personality. There is no difference between good and bad, it is just different personality characteristics or behavioral habits formed by different factors. Character defects are often extreme phenomena of excessive and paranoidness and are not easily possessed. Different personalities will produce different processing effects for different things and situations. The suitability of the result will not reflect the pros and cons of the personality, but will only show different personalities and characteristics, and use the diversity of things to refute the theory of the value of impetuous society.
Most of the information dissemination now tend to exaggerate its content, attracting attention with horror and attracting popularity with sensationalism. At the same time, audiences are often happy to obtain such abnormal information to show superiority or uniqueness. Therefore, when you do not have the ability to think independently and distinguish right from wrong, you will find that there are subversive and rare absolute remarks everywhere.
Humans have a very common feature, that is, exclusiveness . When things that are different from oneself or others appear, negative evaluations emerge unconsciously in the subconscious or in the heart. After good education and training or moral cultivation, some people can suppress this bad habit, but they are the minority after all. Therefore, when someone criticizes or criticizes others, it may not be to correct other people’s mistakes, but to reflect one’s own correctness and superiority, or to show one’s own right to speak and status. This is very ridiculous, but there are always people who enjoy it.
When others are the same or similar to themselves in a certain aspect, they will praise the other party, but in fact they are expressing their superiority.
When others are different or opposite to themselves in a certain aspect, they will deny the other party, but they are actually expressing their superiority.
So, those who say you are not good or wrong may not be simple. It’s just because you are different from them, and their minds cannot accommodate two or more differences at the same time. Of course, there are still some people who will give you sincere opinions and criticisms. These people often analyze problems from your perspective, which is simple and valuable. This is also one of the reasons why human society is quite beautiful.
In short, personality is an important part of a person's personality and a behavioral habit that allows one to live comfortably. Under the premise of objectively not offending others, each personality will have its own positive side and achieve a harmonious but different life.
Statement: Sometimes the so-called inadequate adaptation to society is just about going to the wrong group.
