Parents in every family have such a similar wish, children will live a prosperous and healthy life, and will no longer work hard for the rest of their lives.
can only be said that everyone hopes that themselves and their children and grandchildren can have a "wealthy life" and no longer be affected by the "working life". Thoughts are beautiful, but reality is skinny after all.
From the perspective of the "28 Rule", at least 80% of people have a hard life, while only 20% have a wealthy life. Because the elites ultimately account for a minority.
People without hard work cannot highlight the happiness and well-being of rich people; people without rich people will lose the goal of continuing to climb up. These two types of people ultimately complement each other.
If you want to go from a wealthy life to a hard life, it is relatively simple. You just need to live willfully and you will be able to have a hard life in those few years. On the other hand, it is more difficult to turn from hard work to wealthy life.
Anything is easy to go downhill, but it is difficult to go uphill.
What is the relationship between the wealth and honor of children and grandchildren? On the surface, it is related to the material and money passed down by the family. From a practical point of view, money cannot completely make people have a rich life.
Everything is related to these three points.
1. The wealth and destiny of descendants is related to "people harmony".
As the saying goes, "The right time, place, and people."
The right time and places are what we cannot master, because their appearance is accidental; and "people" is what we can master, because it is related to us.
The so-called "harmony" includes not only the ability of a person, but also the nobles around you, and also the correct guidance of parents and elders. Only by "combining internal and external" can people have strong development momentum.
Why do some children from aristocratic families get along well after they leave society and are welcomed by others?
First of all, because the children of these aristocratic families are particularly capable of , and can perform particularly outstandingly in some aspects;
Secondly, because the children of these aristocratic families are relatively deep in the background , and others need to give them face when they see their background;
Just imagine, when your descendants have excellent abilities and a family has a certain foundation, then won’t they be like a "hidden dragon" and will they eventually fly in the sky?
2. The wealth and destiny of descendants is related to "training".
There is a proverb: "You can't grow pine and cypress in the flower pot, and you can't fly eagles in the bird cage."
The reason why pine and cypress are so tall and upright is because they grow on the vast land and are rooted in the fertile soil. Coupled with the blow of storms, pine and cypress naturally give people a feeling of perseverance.
The reason why the eagle can soar into the sky is because it will not live in its comfort zone, but will only escape from the bird cage and soar in the vast world. Eagles that have experienced setbacks and blows will not become more vulnerable, but will only become stronger and stronger.
Pines and cypresses are like this, eagles are like this, and people are like this. For ordinary people, jade will not be made into a weapon without carving. If you have never been carved by the world, then no matter how capable you are, it will be useless.
There is no need for contemporary parents to spoil their children so much, nor do they completely tie them to their own side. people’s wealth and honor are not born, but gradually possessed through acquired "training".
All people who can achieve something will not be flowers in the greenhouse, but wild roses that are about to bloom.
3. The wealth and destiny of descendants is related to the "heart".
Wang Shouren believes that whether it is blessing or wisdom, it should be explored from the "heart".
The so-called "heart" refers not only to the person's mentality, but also to the person's state of mind. People with good mentality and good mood can generally stand firm in the world and do things with ease.
The "working life" we mentioned above seems to be the hard work of a person, but in fact it is the hard work of the heart. is too poor inside, not rich enough or moist enough, then it is like a flower in the desert, and it will wither after all.
Results who are truly capable will work hard on the word "heart". The so-called "It is easy to break the thief in the mountains, but it is difficult to break the thief in the heart." is very simple to defeat the external enemy, but it is very difficult to defeat the inner demon.
For example, some children born in poor families have inferiority and anxiety hidden deep in their hearts and look down on themselves. How could they turn over?
For example, some children born in rich families are extremely arrogant and look down on others. They are extremely arrogant. How can they get rid of the fate of "everything will turn against each other"?
people do not cultivate their minds and do not destroy their inner demons, and they can only stand still.
Written to the end
Most parents believe that in order for their descendants to get rid of their hard work, we need to work hard to make money and lay a solid material foundation for them.
There is nothing wrong with this kind of idea, it is also normal for human beings. However, we have all ignored one thing. Even if we pass on tens of millions or hundreds of millions of dollars to our descendants, they will easily squander it.
Instead of giving people a "fish", it is better to give people a "fishing". Let them hone their skills in the world, improve their abilities and strengthen their mental power through hard work. Maybe, they will be better than their parents.
people will suffer in the end. Some of the hardships are to prepare for a better life in the future. Parents and descendants may as well wash away all the bad luck and polish the soul in the "hard" of life. I believe that the future of the family will be better.
text/Shushan Youlu
