In a tea party related to growth, I tried to untie the knot of a girl with extreme inferiority. At that time, the popularity of Gu Ailing was at its peak, so she naturally used her example. However, when I just mentioned Gu Ailing's name, I was interrupted by the other party and two other people at the same time. They all firmly believe that the success of "Gu Ailing Style" is just an isolated case and has no reference value.
I didn't continue this topic at that tea party, nor did I give up on my point of view.
Each of us knows little about the real Gu Ailing, but some traits that help her succeed are obvious. Those traits are also lessons that many people need to study for themselves, such as self-confidence.
How to cultivate self-confidence? One of the most important lessons: do what you can within your ability and make a moderate breakthrough.
Gu Ailing is a typical slash youth with wide interests. It can be seen from her career that she will develop her second career from her interests after doing one thing well.
When she won the Olympic championship, she was admitted to Stanford University with high scores. In addition to exclaiming, you should see the essential relationship and order of the two. She was first a student, and she also signed up for a holiday tutoring class when she returned to Haidian from the United States for vacation; skiing was an extracurricular hobby, and she was also serious about it.
Being a student and learning skiing is her "a range of ability + moderate breakthrough"; her achievement in the championship is also this formula: do the movements that can be done + some movements that can be broken through.
In behavioral psychology , the self-confidence cultivated from every bit is healthy. In a certain life experience that Gu Ailing has exposed, he studied Olympiad in Haidian, and his grades beat his classmates after returning to the United States. The open and diverse educational environment gives her the opportunity to see more than anything else. Students with good grades will naturally have more energy to try and make mistakes in other fields, and then find the fields they love, deepen their cultivation and achieve results.
The "excellent results" accumulated bit by bit give her healthy and confident, which is one of the necessary conditions for success.
If you feel inferior, need encouragement, or want to achieve good results, you might as well start by cultivating your healthy self-confidence. Starting from within your ability, constantly practicing makes perfect, and constantly breaking through yourself in moderation. Maybe he can't achieve outstanding results like Gu Ailing, but he will definitely gain an unexpected self.
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