The author of this article is a 15-year-old middle school student 15-year-old middle school students
, please take a look at the real thoughts of the online game!
In today's world, science and technology are booming, and technological innovation has become the endorsement of the new era. Smart phones make people's lives more convenient, and the diversified development of smart phone applications (often called "APP") is the main reason why it can gain a foothold.
01
All things have advantages and disadvantages
_p8span
, we have been full of controversies today. Children are addicted to online games and delay their studies. Parents' reprimands have gradually become stronger, and public opinion has become more and more turbulent. In response to underage overuse and even addiction to the Internet, National Press and Publication Administration issued the "Notice on Further Strict Management and Effective Prevention of Minors’ Addiction to Online Games." In order to actively respond to national policies,Almost all large and small online games in China have upgraded and strengthened the anti-addiction system , which limits the playing time of a large number of minors. There have also been different voices of opposition and approval from various parties on the Internet.
02
Is the network "enemy" or "friend"?
online games have created a virtual world and have become an indispensable way of entertainment for people. Regardless of the stress in school, work or life, people are accustomed to relaxing and adjusting by playing games.
For example, me, I am both a student and a game player. I am deeply aware of the joy of online games, and I also understand the hard work of my parents. Online games can relieve our mood and reduce stress when we encounter annoying things, and can also improve our reaction ability and exercise the ability of unity and cooperation. Although some of the characters in online games are virtual, many character backgrounds and character stories have been seen and heard in daily life; under the background of technology, family, comradeship, and teacher-student affection make us empathize. It resonates deeply.
is it really online games that harm children? The original intention of the game is not wrong, but the children lose themselves in the process of relaxation and decompression, which makes the phenomenon of addiction to the game more and more serious. The self-control of minors has certain defects,But parents also have unshirkable responsibilities.
03
Have parents seriously considered the following questions?
Why do children love to play online games?
In addition to relaxation, it is also a spiritual comfort. In the family, most of the children are born in the 00s, while the parents are mostly born in the 70s and 80s. The difference between ages makes their thinking expressions, life experiences, and topics of concern very different. Children can get rewards and praise in online games, and reap the joy of the team's efforts to win victory. These are exactly what children lack in life but are eager to obtain. In the virtual world of online games, there is no criticism from teachers or nagging from parents, but more happiness and a sense of accomplishment.
What is your image in the eyes of children?
Many parents believe that their image in front of their children is an image of hard work and struggle for their children and their families. However, in the eyes of a child, there are completely opposite images such as "My parents don't let me play games and I use my mobile phone there." "Parents love to play mahjong all day long" and so on.
as a parent,First, set a good example in front of your children. Although children are not fully mature and lack social experience, they always observe their parents. "Why parents can, but I can't?" This has led to a gradual increase in disputes and misunderstandings between children and parents. When you have time, put down your phone, take your children on an outing, exercise together, read a book together, and learn how to cook a dish. These are all very good choices.
Of course, some children will also make comments that criticize their parents. Maybe they haven't seen the hard work of their parents for the family, so parents can also let their children try to understand their own hard work, understand each other, and enhance their relationship.
Minors are the future of the country. Indulging in online games has a great impact on the physical and mental health of minors. Therefore, the related measures to strictly control the playing of online games by minors have more advantages than disadvantages. It is hoped that through the anti-addiction system, the relationship between parents and children can be improved, and online games can develop healthier and benign. However, if we look at it from another point of view, Chinese-made online games can be well received abroad, which is the recognition of China's technological level by foreign netizens, and it is also a manifestation of China's excellent traditional culture "going out".
Source: Original Rule of Law Researcher Legal Education Service Platform for Youth Students
.
