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Men have two turnarounds in their lives, one turnaround before the age of 35, and the other turnaround after the age of 49.
html Men before the age of 335 generally have the motivation and energy to realize their life ideals. According to the development cycle of life, the age at which you can achieve success is mostly concentrated in the five years of 30 to 35 years.
so-called "standing at thirty". The real "establishment" is not only about starting a family and establishing a career, but also about the generalization of people being able to establish themselves in the world and having their own assets and status.
After 35 years old, the turning point of men's "from prosperity to decline" appeared. This has something to do with the "35-year-old workplace law" in real life.
programmer , who once received a high salary, was abandoned after 35 years old; young people who once worked in the market seemed to be not good at 35 years old.
Slowly, the man survived until he was 40 years old and found that the pressure of life came one after another, and the conflicts in the family gradually increased. I don’t know when it will be “There is another village in the dark and bright” .
Almost 49 years old, many middle-aged men are Buddhist, thinking that their friends around them are gone, and they are no longer able to live beyond 49 years old, which is also a protection of fate.
What they didn’t expect was that from the age of 50, the “second spring” of life also appeared.
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As we all know, 49 years old is a level in life, stumbles countless people and makes them lose the opportunity to choose their lives. Therefore, many people think that the midlife crisis is not easy.
is indeed not easy to live, but the word "crisis" gives us a hint that if you have dangerous experiences in your life, you will naturally have the moment of encountering "opportunity". There will be dangers and opportunities, which is absolutely true.
The so-called "submit to the dead land and survive, and then stay in the dead land and live."
When a person survives the 49th age, he will find that a 50-year-old life will be a new beginning. The so-called "knowing destiny at fifty" means that the fate of changes, and knowing the destiny of means.
You should know that before the age of 50, it is the first stage of life, so it is destined that 49 is the final test of the first stage . After passing this test, a new path in life emerges and a new trajectory begins to run again.
There are many celebrities in history who only started to make their fortunes after they were 50 years old.
For example, Han Gaozu Liu Bang, 49 years old was still a gangster. After 50 years old, Liu Bang went hand in hand with Xiang Yu and competed for the world.
For example, Emperor Zhaolie of Han Liu Bei, 49 years old, he was still under someone's roof. After 50 years old, he began to capture Jingzhou , and then collected Xichuan, and established Shu Han Daye at the age of 59.
The first spring of life, we may miss it. But we need to grasp the second spring of life. If you lose it, you will really have hopeless life.
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mentioned above that Liu Xuande html only gradually owned a large territory after he was 450 years old, and achieved the imperial career at the age of 59. This second spring time seems to last until the age of 59.
Why? Because when Liu Bei was 59 years old, he received bad news one after another. Guan Yu was defeated and killed by Dongwu . After a while, Zhang Fei and were also killed by subordinates because of their excessive tyranny.
It was at the age of 59 that Liu Bei's great cause of Shu Han began to decline. Another year or two later, Liu Bei launched a war against Wu. Who knew that the elite Shu Kingdom defeated Yiling, laying the foundation for the inevitable destruction of Shu Kingdom.
Life is actually so interesting. After 49 years old, God will give you a chance to go uphill. And at the age of 59, God will gradually take back your luck and make you live like an ordinary person.
So, A man's second spring is mostly concentrated in the years of 50 to 58. In the past few years, you can start your own career or become a leader in the unit. Anyway, "the spring breeze is so proud that you can see all the flowers in Chang'an in one day."
Some people may wonder why the second spring ends at the age of 59?
is easy to understand. people are about to retire. The experience in this life is almost done. It is time to return to the ordinary. Slowly, even the most capable people will be "indifferent to everyone". There is a Qian hexagram in " Zhouyi ", which is divided into , do not use the hidden dragon, see the dragon in the field, dry all day, or leaping in the abyss, flying dragon in the sky, and regretting the dragon.
Some people took more than 40 years to gradually make a fortune. When you reach the state of flying dragons in the sky, your achievements have reached a peak.
has reached its peak, which indicates that "everything will turn back" is about to happen. Therefore, after the flying dragon is "the dragon regrets it."
What exactly is "Kanglong regrets"? The so-called "kang" means high. The so-called "regret" was explained by Baidu Encyclopedia, which in ancient times referred to "disaster".
In other words, if it reaches a certain level, it will cause trouble. In short, it means that you have to go downhill after walking uphill.
is the same as Su Shi talked about "high places are cold" . Everyone feels that when it reaches the peak, everything will be fine. Who knows that the wind, frost, rain and snow at the peak are not something that ordinary people can withstand. After a period of time, many people have to go down from the mountain.
What we often say Men are afraid of "9", and 59 years old is a hurdle. This is related to "Kanglong regrets". No constant strength or weakness, everything will not last long.
A man is over 50 years old, just do his best to do his duty, and let the rest be natural.
text/Shushan Youlu
