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"She is very free, cheerful, kind, with a knife-like mouth and a tofu heart..."
This is what Hu Yaozhi said when he described his beautiful wife Zhang Lingxin , and his words are full of pride and pampering.
And the relationship between them always reminds people of the lines in the movie "Falling in Heart":
"Some people are mediocre, some people are gorgeous; some people are simple and unpretentious, some people are shining; but you will always meet some people, emitting a rainbow-like light from the inside out. This person is like a rainbow, and you will know that it will happen if you meet it."
For Hu Yaozhi, Zhang Lingxin seems to be the biggest variable in his life.
If Zhang Lingxin was not there, he would probably find a teacher of similar age and gentle personality to get married and have children, and live his life indifferently.
But in the dark destiny, he met Zhang Lingxin and changed his life for her.
Love ran for 20 years before it touched Zhang Lingxin's unmarriageism, and became a father at the age of 47.
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Hu Yaozhi first met Zhang Lingxin at the end of 1995. At that time, Zhang Lingxin was not a student of Beijing Film Academy , but was just one of the many candidates who came to participate in the Beijing Film Academy.
At that time, Hu Yaozhi was already a teacher at the Beijing Film Academy.
In addition to a group of little kids who have just been promoted from high school, he also has to study for a postgraduate doctorate while filming, and his life is busy and fulfilling.
Under such a background, Hu Yaozhi's life and Zhang Lingxin's life will not have any intersection at all. Even if there is
, under the huge age difference and life experience, the two of them will probably not have any sparks.
But perhaps it was destined. Zhang Lingxin, who was born and raised in Shanghai, did not choose Shanghai Theatre Academy , but instead chose the Beijing Film Academy to look far away.
In the dark, the two who are twelve years apart met at the Beijing Film Academy.
996, Zhang Lingxin became a member of the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy in 1996, and became classmates with Huang Xiaoming and others, and also became teachers and students with Hu Yaozhi.
At the Beijing Film Academy at that time, the legend of Hu Yaozhi has been circulating. He also has a terrifying nickname - "Hu Dadao".
And the reason why he has this reputation is that Hu Yaozhi became the head teacher not long after he became a teacher, and he was in charge of more than 40 freshmen.
However, there were thirty-five students late in class on the first day. Hu Yaozhi looked at these late students and didn't think he was wrong at all, so he was angry.
So he took a piece of bamboo from the construction site of the school teaching building, and asked them to stand in a row and hit their hands to show punishment.
Under Hu Yaozhi's strict "bamboo fried pork", the first girl who was beaten cried out in pain. The students behind realized that Hu Yaozhi was coming to the real world and began to realize that he was wrong. After this "punishment" between
, no one dared to laugh in Hu Yaozhi's class anymore, and he also gained the reputation of "Hu Dadao", which made many freshmen "feared" him.
But among these people, there is one person who is not afraid of him, that is - Zhang Lingxin.
At that time, all the girls who had just entered college liked handsome and handsome guys, but Zhang Lingxin only liked Hu Yaozhi who looked a little "ugly".
Zhang Lingxin probably heard the legend of Hu Yaozhi when she entered school. After several contacts, she felt that Hu Yaozhi was not as fierce as the legend.
is a very responsible teacher and a pure man. Her understanding of
also made her gradually feel good about Hu Yaozhi, teacher.
However, the reason why Zhang Lingxin was attracted to Hu Yaozhi was not only because of Hu Yaozhi's character, but also because of Hu Yaozhi's appearance.
Zhang Lingxin Grandpa Zhang Ge
Zhang Lingxin's grandfather is very handsome, but since childhood, grandfather has led Zhang Lingxin to ask himself if he is very handsome. After receiving Zhang Lingxin's affirmative answer, grandfather said to Zhang Lingxin earnestly:
"Remember, handsome men are not reliable, they are not good."
Zhang Lingxin, who grew up under such education, looked down on the so-called handsome men, and admired those who don't look very good.
A man with a good personality and character, so Hu Yaozhi's unsatisfactory appearance just happened to be on Zhang Ling's heart.
Zhang Lingxin was young and energetic at that time, and was at the age of passionate and bravery for dating. After confirming his thoughts on Hu Yaozhi, he took the initiative to start a journey of women chasing men.
However, Hu Yaozhi looked at Zhang Lingxin, who was particularly proactive, only felt that there were two words written on her fair face - a fool, and she felt that this little girl seemed to be not very smart.
Of course, he beautified his first impression of Zhang Lingxin and told Zhang Lingxin that her first impression was that she felt that she was very well-behaved, and that Zhang Lingxin was so angry that she punched him twice.
Over time, Hu Yaozhi could also feel Zhang Lingxin's different feelings for him as a student, but Zhang Lingxin was ignorant. He could not be ignorant, nor could he not think about Zhang Lingxin.
The identity of teachers and students, the age difference of twelve years old, he was worried that if he was with Zhang Lingxin, she would suffer a lot of gossip.
Therefore, Hu Yaozhi did not dare to respond to Zhang Lingxin's active show of affection, so that Zhang Lingxin pursued her for more than two years.
Zhang Ling is about to reach her junior year, and then she is a senior, internship, and work. She has always been reserved and wants Hu Yaozhi to confess her voluntarily.
It was about to miss it, but in the end Zhang Ling couldn't hold back her anger. She broke the can and found Hu Yaozhi:
"That, actually I like you very much, do you know?"
Hu Yaozhi certainly knew Zhang Lingxin's intentions, but she didn't know that Zhang Lingxin would be so proactive. She was stunned in the spot, at a loss.
Zhang Lingxin looked at Hu Yaozhi's reaction seriously. Seeing that he didn't say anything, she thought it was a rejection. She had a strong sense of self-esteem and immediately said this was a joke.
Hu Yaozhi seemed to have made some decision in his heart, and suddenly looked at Zhang Lingxin seriously and firmly:
"Let's try together!"
Hu Yaozhi's words instantly made Zhang Ling happy. She thought in her heart that it would be better to try than to refuse.
But what she didn't know was that the moment Hu Yaozhi said this, he had already secretly swore in his heart that he had decided to be kind to her for the rest of his life and let her live happily for the rest of her life.
So how can this teacher-student love between 12 years apart?
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After Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin were together, they unexpectedly received blessings from all teachers and students, thinking that they were very compatible. Some students even felt that Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin became much gentler after they were together.
In the past, Hu Yaozhi and his students usually asked their students to pay attention to safety and go back to the dormitory to rest early.
But after the meal, a student boldly suggested singing together, but Hu Yaozhi actually agreed and took Zhang Lingxin with him.
It’s a pity that Hu Yaozhi’s aura is too strong. After going to KTV with the students, the students ordered a lot of songs, but no one dared to sing with the microphone, and everyone sat in a row and listened to the songs.
Then Hu Yaozhi also felt that the student felt uncomfortable because he was there, so he found a reason to go home. When he held Zhang Lingxin's hand, he found that a student secretly winked her and asked her to stay and play together.
Hu Yaozhi was unwilling to do so, and secretly told Zhang Lingxin that it was almost the same, so he took his girlfriend's hand and left.
From here, we can probably feel that Hu Yaozhi really gave Zhang Lingxin all the blatant preference that she could give, and introduced her to everyone.
But Hu Yaozhi's kindness to Zhang Lingxin is far more than that. The most touching thing is that he fully understands and tolerates Zhang Lingxin's free personality.
Zhang Ling longs for freedom. It can be seen from the choice of Beijing Film Academy in order to stay away from her parents during the college entrance examination. After being with Hu Yaozhi, she also acted casually.
After filming, I would go out alone to play for several months, but Hu Yaozhi never interfered, and even sent her to the airport considerately.
After graduating from university, Zhang Lingxin planned to study abroad for several months. Hu Yaozhi did not object after knowing it. He even sent him outside the airport on the day of Zhang Lingxin's departure, but he was not sent to the station.
Zhang Ling thought Hu Yaozhi didn't love him, so he asked him why he didn't send him in. Hu Yaozhi looked at her and said:
"Do you think you need it? You don't say anything, come back if you stay there unhappy, and come back if you are wronged."
Where can I find a boyfriend who respects me so much now.
Hu Yaozhi undoubtedly made Zhang Lingxin love him more and more. However, why is Zhang Lingxin unwilling to marry him?
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It turns out that Zhang Lingxin is a completely unmarried man. She thinks it’s good that two people feel comfortable together, so why both of them care about the marriage certificate .
At first, Hu Yaozhi didn't know about this, until he proposed that he would propose that Zhang Lingxin felt that it would be better to let it go.
Hu Yaozhi didn't say anything after hearing this. Since she wanted to let the flow go, she would let the flow go. But he never expected that it would be smooth for twenty years.
In these twenty years, Hu Yaozhi filmed "Ink and Wash Youth" and " Bone Language ". Zhang Lingxin is his heroine in every drama.
also personally sent Zhang Lingxin out to play many times. He waited for her to come back in China. Hu Yaozhixin thought twenty years would be enough.
In the 20th year of love between the two, Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin went to Japan. While drinking Japanese sake , Hu Yaozhi said naturally:
"You see, we are getting married now and are good for all aspects of work. Otherwise, we will get the certificate one day."
After saying that, Hu Yaozhi was very nervous. This seemingly simple and casual sentence has actually been practiced countless times in his heart.
Finally, when he was praying secretly in his heart, Zhang Lingxin agreed casually and asked him to choose a day where no one was queuing up.
Hu Yaozhi was happy to pat his chest and guaranteed that he would do it. After returning to China, he immediately chose the most recent good day. After choosing the good day, he was still afraid that Zhang Ling would change his mind, so he went to the Civil Affairs Bureau in advance to make a good point.
Check where the parking lot is parked, where to get the number, where to go to get a marriage certificate, what are the specific requirements for taking wedding photos, etc.
After you are fully familiar with it, you go back and swear to Zhang Ling to agree with you that the days and procedures of applying for a certificate will be easy.
Zhang Lingxin asked at this time:
"After you get the certificate, you won't change, right?"
Hu Yaozhi said to Zhang Lingxin seriously:
"I will be better to you than before getting married."
Zhang Lingxin went to get the certificate with him with confidence after hearing Hu Yaozhi's words.
In 2014, Hu Yaozhi finally married this Shanghai girl who was twelve years younger than him.
As the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love. So is Hu Yaozhi better to treat Zhang Ling after marriage than before marriage?
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In fact, life after marriage is no different from life before marriage. The difference is that the relationship between the two is better.
Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin have a cat and a dog, and live a happy life with cats and dogs in advance.
The difference is that Zhang Lingxin went out to play by herself in the past, but after marriage, she liked to go out for a trip with Hu Yaozhi, but she occasionally encountered very embarrassing situations.
Once Zhang Lingxin and her former dance classmate went out for a picnic party. Zhang Lingxin brought Hu Yaozhi with her. Who knew that her first love had come.
I thought it would be an embarrassing scene for the ex-person meeting, but who knew that Hu Yaozhi actually took the initiative to cling to his wife's ex and said:
"Brother, you are still wise."
Zhang Lingxin laughed beside him so hard that she couldn't help herself. There have been more than once such embarrassing scenes.
Before, Hu Yaozhi took Zhang Lingxin to travel to stay in B&B , Zhang Lingxin cleaned up in the room, and then a row of young people came in obediently and stood in line.
When Zhang Ling was unaware of this, Hu Yaozhi came in and explained that they were his former students.
Zhang Lingxin looked at these students who seemed to have made a big mistake and were amused and laughed again.
Hu Yaozhi actually wondered why these students were so afraid of themselves. They saw that they even threw away their girlfriend's hand, like a mouse meeting a cat.
may be related to your own self-respect, but that's nothing. Just know how to be responsible to students, be loyal to your family, and be good to your wife.
In 2016, Zhang Lingxin finally got pregnant and gave birth to a son. That year, Hu Yaozhi was forty-seven years old and finally became a father.
The world of two has finally become a family of three, happy and happy.
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Now, Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin are still living their happy lives steadily. Hu Yaozhi continues to do behind the scenes work, and Zhang Lingxin continues to be her actors.
Over the years, she has starred in Xiadong in " Langya Bang " and Luo Ziqun in "My First Half of Life".
The web drama "Bone Language 2" is currently on the air, and Zhang Lingxin has also contributed her superb acting skills to this. At the same time, this drama has added another strong point to her acting career.
However, compared to Zhang Lingxin's prosperous career, everyone seems to envy her more of meeting Hu Yaozhi, a good man. understands her love for her, and has not changed for decades.
Of course, Zhang Lingxin is also very good and has never minded the gap between the two.
From the moment she met Hu Yaozhi, she always walked towards Hu Yaozhi unswervingly, and was willing to change her principles for him and chose to get married and have children.
So maybe we can also learn something from their love stories. When we meet love, can we also take the initiative and actively seize the hard-won fate.
During this period, they may encounter various gaps and difficulties like Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin, but the so-called:
"The lovers call it the right house and the home-friendly ones, and the unloved ones abandon it and drift through the water. In fact, each flower is in his eyes, and right and wrong are only in the hearts of the people."
Sometimes people's right and wrong are not so important. What's important is that even if they are covered in bruises, they will still be determined without hesitation. Life is not just doing worthy things, life is not just doing worthy things, but also doing what they want to do.
Take the initiative, maybe you can be like Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin. You promise me that everything you love is me, and I promise you that you will be in your life, and you will be in your eyes.
