The theme of this issue of emotional mediation is the fraternal conflicts caused by demolitions in the village.
When the old father was still alive, the two elders lived together in the big house of the youngest son. After the old father passed away, the old mother built a small house by herself. I usually eat and burn myself. During this time, the village was demolished and the small house built by the old mother was demolished.
It happened that the younger son’s house had just been renovated and painted, so he could not live in it temporarily, so the younger son went to discuss with the elder brother, and temporarily let the old mother live at the elder brother’s house, but the eldest brother and sister-in-law took the opportunity to propose to re-divide the land and the house and ask for the father The remaining piece of land made the youngest son feel very uncomfortable.
The youngest said to the eldest brother: "Big brother, my house has just been renovated, and you took my mother to your house for a while." The eldest brother said: "Re-separate the land and house" , for the sake of the tea mountain that was given to the younger son when the family was separated. In a private plot, the two brothers had conflicts.
emotional mediation
The young man said to the mediator: "My brother said he wants his mother to live with me. I also agree. I can provide a room, but if the two brothers take turns to take care of me, my brother disagrees. What he meant It means that my parents used to live with him and stayed at his house for a long time. Now I should take care of my mother." The young wife of
added: "There is another problem with Chashan. I am a native of the village. My husband divided Chashan a few months after we got married, but after a year, the two brothers separated. The father-in-law gave our Chashan to his uncle. Now that this has happened, I want to bring Chashan back."
mediator Question: "You are mainly to solve the old mother’s pension problem. Are there any other issues besides it?" The boss said: “One is the pension issue, and the other is the parent property issue. My father raised pigs when he was there. Many houses have been built, and they are going to be demolished now. The name is my brother’s name. If I can lose money in the future, I will not get a penny. My idea is that I will take what I should take, and my mother must take care of it. "Z3z
communicated with the eldest couple for a while. After understanding the general situation, the mediator followed the eldest couple to the younger brother's mobile phone shop. The younger brother told the mediator: "I didn't support my mother. My eldest brother always asked me. The land left by my father."
At the suggestion of the mediator, a group of people came to the village committee for mediation. After sitting down, the younger brother told the mediator: "The village is demolished. My mother has no land to live in. My house just now The decoration, I can’t live there, so I told my elder brother to let my mother stay with him for a while, and the elder brother agreed, but there is a prerequisite for the re-distribution of land and houses." A piece of land in the mouth of the two brothers
. His own plot was taken by his father to build a house. The name of this plot is now his brother's name. The mediator of
said: "Whether it is Chashan or private land, if your two brothers are too involved and have to go to the point of a lawsuit, when the court comes to the court, whoever advocates and who will give evidence, for example, the brother said that Chashan belongs to him, then the brother will take it. The separation agreement that year came out, as for the private land, it is necessary to check the certificate of right." Brother
said: "The land is clear. My father built about three houses to raise pigs. This is the property of my parents. If the demolition loses money, the lost money will be given to my mother." Brother
asked: "How many squares do you know?" Brother
: "How many squares can be measured!" Brother
: "In your name, you are sure I know how many squares." Brother
knocked on the table and said, "Brother, if I have a bad conscience, I won't give you a penny!" The village director of
told the mediator that the village is now engaged in beautiful village construction, maybe their father The attached house made by my mother will be demolished, and there may be a compensation after demolishing. I personally think this money should be given to the old mother.
Finally, under the persuasion of the village director and the mediator, the two brothers agreed to the following plan: "First, the tea field belongs to the elder brother, and the private land belongs to the younger brother. Second, if there is compensation after the house is demolished, the compensation money will be given to the old mother. "Z3z
When the mediation ended, the old mother came to the mediation site and was asked which son she wanted to live with. The old mother said that she was used to living with the younger son, and she was still willing to live with the younger son.
emotional comment
The old mother is 77 years old and can still take care of herself. At the end of the mediation, the old mother said that if her son calls herShe would also go to help pick the tea leaves. In fact, from the side, the old mother just wanted to do something for her child as much as she could, and didn't want to be a burden to her child.
The old mother said that she wanted to live with the younger son, and the younger son agreed, but after a few years, the older mother will become older and will gradually become unable to do so, and the elder son cannot shirk the obligation of maintenance. If people cannot dare to take care of them, then The cost has to be borne. Brother
’s heart knot is the tea field and private plot. To put it bluntly, the father’s family property is not much, and the younger brother is not particularly bad. It’s like the younger brother said, the name belongs to him. If he doesn’t give it to the older brother, the older brother really There is no way. When
attaches importance to the property left by their parents, I also hope that every child can pay attention to the support of their parents. Everyone has the day when they grow old, and how they treat their parents, children and grandchildren will also be in their eyes.
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