With the development of the times, "honest person" has gradually become a derogatory term. Whether you are willing to admit it or not, in many people's minds, "honest person" is the person who is most easily bullied. In fact, no one is willing to be labeled an "honest person" by others, so why can others see that you are an "honest person" at a glance? You can't hide these three characteristics, they are naturally exposed.
First, the temper is too good, never lose your temper.
Talking about honest people, many people's first impression is that honest people have a good temper and don't lose their temper with anyone. To put it more bluntly, it means being timid and fearful, very afraid of destroying the relationship with others, so they often dare not offend others.
People with this kind of personality are actually very easy to suffer in the workplace. After all, this kind of personality prevents them from rejecting others and unwilling to form a competitive relationship with others. Over time, they will let themselves in the company. There is no sense of existence, let alone any promotion and salary increase. You must know that the "wolves" that stand out in the workplace are the "wolves", and the honest people are the docile "sheep" who dare not maintain their own merits and choose to swallow their words. The grades won't overtake you.
2. Easily trust others.
Honest people also have a major characteristic, that is, there are no cities, in general, they have no scheming, simple ideas, and relatively simple ideas, so this often leads to themselves being used by others. Although we often say that believing in others is a virtue, there is a prerequisite, that is, each other must have equal trust. However, it is easy to say, but it is often not the same thing to do. Because of the various interest relationships and various rights disputes in the workplace, honest people are doomed to suffer. Honest people tend to trust the habits of others, and in the eyes of others, they do not deserve to be respected. Therefore, we often see the dignity of honest people being trampled on by many people. Z2z
Lao Wang is a very honest ordinary employee. He has been in the workplace for more than ten years. Because he has suffered a loss for more than ten years, the company does not have his share in every promotion and salary increase. Lao Wang couldn't help it several times and ran to ask the boss, wanting the boss to give him an "account". However, every time the boss replied to Lao Wang: "Do you trust my boss?" Lao Wang also nodded stupidly every time. Then the boss promised that as long as you are willing to work hard, I will see it in my eyes and will not treat you badly. However, Pharaoh had worked for several years, and the result was still the same in the end, so Pharaoh could only choose to leave and find another way.
Third, do not understand "speaking" and will not show themselves.
Honest people are too honest, so they are often not good at language skills. However, this shortcoming is very "fatal" in the workplace, because if your eloquence is not good and you are not very good at talking, then even if you have made great achievements, you cannot use your own mouth to promote yourself, then Naturally, you will not get the attention of others, and even what you have done is not even known to others. Therefore, if you want others to understand our hard work, then you must learn to "speak well" and show our own work results appropriately. There is another point worth mentioning in
. When dealing with leaders or colleagues, many honest people are often prone to “one-size-fits-all” and do not know how to be flexible. Such behavior cannot be said to be bad, but it is definitely not good for their development in the workplace. of. Therefore, if you want to make yourself popular, there are some things that need to be compromised when the leader gets along with his colleagues. If you make a concession, make a concession and make what you do more smoothly.
Summary
If you don't want others to know that your personality is docile and make others think you are bullying, then you must correct the above three characteristics and stop being an "honest person".
