"Versailles Literature" is popular, "Celebrities Fighting Single Group" is popular, and "Fake big money, fake second generation" is also popular. Every word of
that explodes the Internet is essentially the emotional feedback of netizens; because of something, netizens have similar feelings.
The words "pseudo celebrity" and "fake big money" appeared in a hot search at the same time: first date, ordering 20,000 meals, escaping orders halfway.
picking up any word is enough to stimulate the eyes of netizens.
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met with netizens, first date, order 20,000
saw a hot search: Ms. Yang from Ningbo, first date with male netizen Mr. Lin for dinner; they chose a high-end hot pot restaurant, the address is Ms. Yang's choice , And after choosing a place to eat, Ms. Yang explained the suggestion to the man. The boy
also agreed. There is a reminder on the
shop, generally speaking, the per capita consumption is more than 1K.
In the process of ordering meals, Ms. Yang consumed more than 6K to order and opened a bottle of red wine for 12,000.
Here is an episode:
Ms. Yang said: After all, the first time I met, there are some red wines that cost more than 200,000. I don't think we can consume people like this.
Implications: Ms. Yang has already thought from the bottom of her heart that since you invited me to have a meal, you should be responsible for paying the bill for the first meeting.
is the key point next: During the meal of
, Mr. Lin used to excuse his stomach discomfort and wanted to go to the bathroom halfway through; then, he would never return.
A meal cost more than 20,000. Mr. Lin escaped from the order halfway through. In the end, Ms. Yang paid for the meal. However, the wine did not open, and Ms. Yang finally paid more than 6K for the meal.
In Ms. Yang's self-report, she stated that Mr. Lin acted indecently towards her during the meal.
And when Mr. Lin accepted a telephone interview, he said that he did nothing and don't believe her words.
also said: I feel that I have been cheated, so I escaped the order halfway. A bottle of red wine is more than 10,000, and a meal is several thousand. Where is that expensive?
There is a poll online: How much are you willing to spend for the first time you meet for dinner?
has 36,000 people participating in the vote, the most votes are 200-500, followed by less than 200.
The attitude of most people towards the first blind date is: I can pay for you, but I don’t accept your order is expensive.
Of course, more than 6000 people voted, why should I pay the bill?
implication: AA system is better.
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The adult blind date market is always full of contradictions.
Netizens have different opinions on this matter. Some netizens at
said: At first glance, it is the story of a fake celebrity and a fake big money. One wants to eat, one wants to deceive. Some people at
also said: This girl did nothing wrong. Since the boys actively invite to eat and also accept to come to such a restaurant, they should think about how much they spend.
Some people also said: Men pretend to be big money, want face, and finally run away if they can't make it. Half of
think that men and women are wrong, half think that boys make more mistakes, and half think that girls just want sugar daddy.
Look, the comments of netizens simply sum up the dilemma of men and women in the current blind date market.
Remember that there was a hot search before, it was the first date for a boy and a girl, the woman brought more than 20 relatives in the family, and finally ordered more than 20,000 blind dates? There are many similar things in
.
In the blind date market, what are the main contradictions between boys and girls?
First: Boys pay
In many people's minds, it seems that it is natural for boys to pay; for the first date, boys spend money; for the first blind date, boys spend money.
And this view is acquiesced in the hearts of many boys; but there is a premise that the cost is acceptable to them.
It doesn’t matter if you spend a few hundred yuan on a meal; but if it’s tens of thousands, it would be too much.
Second: Girls pay the bill
Some boys will think: if you are rushing to pay, you just look down on me.
and girls may think: I don’t want to owe you, if I don’t like you, I can’t accept your gift.
Third: AA system
Relatively speaking, AA system should be the one that should be tried in the current blind date market.
Two people who do not know each other, the first time they eat on a date, it is unfair to whoever pays the bill; if they don’t know enough, no one knows who the other party is. The AA system is fair to each other.
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I want to give people who are on a blind date, some suggestions
First: If you can meet and chat, don’t chat online. Did not chat face-to-face, did not see each other's dressing and behavior habits; therefore, you can not find the entry point of the topic.
might as well try to go on a blind date with each other in the company of a good friend; go for a walk, take a walk, and then decide whether to continue talking.
Online blind dates are a waste of time; offline blind dates can make your heart hear the sound.
Second: The first time you meet, it is best not to go to the restaurant
. This is similar to the first point.
You think, how embarrassing is that two people who have never met before go to the restaurant on their first date?
Uncomfortable eating, uncomfortable ordering, who will pay the bill in the end, even more uncomfortable, why bother to ask for it?
Rather than torturing each other, it is better to find a park for a walk, which can relax your body and mind; buy each other a cup of milk tea at most, chat, and feel the atmosphere of two people together.
Third: Don’t have gender differences
Girls don’t take it for granted: I’m a girl, and I’m a disadvantaged group, so you have to treat and pay.
No one owes you anything, what happened to the boys?
Boys don’t want machismo: you are a girl, you have to listen to me; you should do this, follow my requirements; I just pay the bill, I am a man.
What's wrong with you as a boy? Should boys disrespect girls’ opinions? Do boys have to rush to pay?
I think: Who pays for
shouldn’t be an embarrassing thing; most girls have a sense of measure and will not let boys consume on their own; for boys, they are naturally also measured. What are your own conditions and what income , Just go somewhere to eat.
Don't make blind dates for the sake of face, don't force yourself for the sake of face; you are looking for someone, not talking about business. If
is suitable, go to eat; if it is inappropriate, there is no need to eat.
Fourth: Give and feedback, wait and decide
Boys invite you to dinner, girls should remember to invite boys to drink a glass of water; boys give you gifts, if you don’t want to accept them, you can refuse, or you can give them other gifts.
This is called reciprocity, also called giving and feedback.
Of course, this also has a premise: if you don't like it, don't accept it.
and waiting and deciding is your test period for this blind date; set a week or so for you to see if the other party is suitable. If
is suitable, try to get along, if it is inappropriate, make it clear as soon as possible; don’t procrastinate, don’t waste each other’s time, it is the respect that adults should have.
Today’s topic:
What do you think about the first date, ordering more than 20,000 meals?
Do you think, who should pay for the first meal for men and women?
