Love is an eternal topic, and we all yearn for an unforgettable love. During the ignorant period of youth, I am full of expectations for sweet love, hoping that there will be a perfect lover.
There is a segment in the documentary "Frozen Planet" that impressed me, and that is the process of male polar bears looking for a partner.
The extremely cold North Pole is still full of ice and snow in spring. A male polar bear distinguished a female bear more than ten kilometers away by smell, and the male bear started chasing, dragging its heavy body and walking on the thick snow. After several days of chasing every second, the male and female bears met. It's really "kung fu pays off"!
Obviously, both the male and female bears were excited about this encounter. After a short period of "flirting", the female bear led the male bear to a high ground. (Bears also pay attention to privacy protection! ) Just when they were ready to be sweet, a male competitor arrived and started a fight with the male bear. Later, the male bear was defeated. Then several competitors came, after rounds of difficult fights. The first male bear won, but it was also scarred. It came to her partner in excitement, but the female bear seemed to lose her interest. In order to win the hearts of the female bear, the male bear did everything possible. After unremitting efforts, the mother bear was conquered by this strong love.
After a brief meeting, the mother bear is pregnant with a baby, and the couple also had to separate, and may never see each other.
Although the love of polar bears is short-lived, the spirit of male polar bears is worthy of our reflection. It insists on love and the spirit of persistence makes me admire.
The difficult love of polar bears reminds me of my two girlfriends. At that time, their love was not favored by their parents, but they both fell in love with their boyfriend very much. Now, the lives of the two girlfriends are completely different.
A girlfriend who felt that her boyfriend's appearance was average, his height was too short, and the family conditions were poor, and they disagreed with them. But they always believed that each other was the best one. They understand and tolerate each other, and after 5 years of hard work, their boyfriend has succeeded in starting a business and has also been recognized and accepted by his parents. Now, their lives are as happy as the ending of a fairy tale.
Another girlfriend, who was in love for 2 years, gave up because of family opposition and chose a man introduced by her parents to get married. After marriage, she and her husband both felt that the other party was not the right person, and because they had no emotional foundation, they have now separated and are on the verge of divorce. Now this girlfriend is very regretful, and often said that if she was a little firmer and persevered, she might have a happy marriage.
Think about it carefully. It's not just love in life. There are many things that are the same in life. You just need to hold on and work harder, and the result will be much better. As the saying goes, "Keep the clouds open and see the moonlight", only by persisting can we see the dark clouds clear and the sun rise!
