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Everyone is not born out of a rock. They have parents, and some have brothers and sisters. These are all family relationships that are connected by blood, no matter how things change in the world, these family relationships are eternal.
In a person's life, love is certainly very important, but blood relationship is also very important. Everyone plays a lot of roles, and can't care about one or the other, only assume one role.
Love, affection, and friendship are indispensable emotions in life. Everyone must balance various relationships. If you love someone, you have to tolerate everything about him, and you can't let him go around you alone.
So when you decide to marry someone, you must love Wu Jiwu and accept his family. If you cannot accept his family, especially his parents, it is best not to get married, otherwise the marriage will not be happy.
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There are many couples in life, and they finally get divorced. In fact, it is not that the two of them have a bad relationship, but other people outside the marriage are in control. If the two of them live alone, then the marriage will be very happy, and there will not be much unpleasantness.
But marriage is complicated. It is a combination of two families, and it is not just a matter of two people. Some girls think very simply before getting married. I am marrying him, not his family. How his family has nothing to do with me, I don't care.
There are some girls who think that I don't rely on them, I only rely on myself. The mother-in-law's family has theirs, our young couple has ours, there will be no trouble. This is really too simple to think, and too good to think. If things are really like this, then many marriages will be very happy.
My friend Xiao Xia thought this way when she got married. The man's mother is a notoriously difficult person to get along with. Xiao Xia didn't like her either, but Xiao Xia still married that man. At that time, Xiaoxia said, anyway, she and her husband were alone, and if they did not live with their in-laws, there would be no conflicts after marriage.
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After getting married, the mother-in-law went to their small house twice in three days, always taking care of it, and the two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had conflicts. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law later developed into a conflict between husband and wife, and then the two divorced. After the divorce of
, Xiaoxia said that she thought too simple before getting married, and the relationship between her husband and his mother will always be cut off. After she married her husband, she wanted to live her life with her husband, but her mother-in-law has been involved in their marriage like a third party.
So if you want to get married, whether you are a man or a woman, you must love the house and the crow and truly accept each other's family. Only when oneself and each other's family get along well can it be beneficial to the marriage, and the young couple can live their lives well.
Xiaoxia's ex-husband later remarried, and the remarried wife was the one her mother-in-law liked. Because of her love for Xiaoxia's ex-husband, the woman loved the house and accepted her mother-in-law in Wudi. After the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, the life of the young couple will get along more easily, and the relationship between the couple will be better.
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Later, Xiaoxia Jing was introduced and met a man who was also divorced. She learned the lesson of her last marriage. This time she did not date her boyfriend a few times, so she met with her boyfriend's family. Boyfriend's family of
likes Xiaoxia very much, and Xiaoxia also has a good impression of them and gets along very well. Later, Xiaoxia and her boyfriend got married smoothly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was handled very well, and the marriage relationship was naturally very happy.
Now Xiaoxia's conclusion is: If she can't accept her husband's family, no matter how much she loves this man, it is better not to get married. Otherwise, after getting married, the man will be caught between his wife and his family, and he will be in a dilemma. If he is facing his family, then the marriage will break up sooner or later.
Xiaoxia has learned such a lesson from her life experience. Those girls who are not deeply involved in the world and are in love may not be able to think so far. However, we must absorb wisdom from the experience of the predecessors to guide our own life. Marriage is a lifetime matter, so we must be cautious.
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After a person gets married, he must focus on his own small family, but it cannot be completely separated from the original family. So we must balance the relationship between the small family and the original family. If you want to marry this person, he can’t accept itPeople in your native family, then you have to be careful.
When a man is in a relationship with his girlfriend, he should take his girlfriend home and let his family and girlfriend get along. If there is a problem, you can find it in time. Don't think everything is good when you are in a relationship. After you get married, there are a lot of problems, then it will be troublesome.
As a family member, if you really want the young couple to be good, you should also support the young couple. Parents-in-law must accept daughter-in-law generously, parents-in-law must accept son-in-law, and elders open tolerant embraces and accept juniors, and juniors will love their elders more and are more willing to join this big family. Since
has become a family, many of the time it will be lost and all won. Therefore, family members must be more tolerant, considerate and understand each other, and care less, and the family will be harmonious and happy.
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