In life, we often see such a situation, that is, a man and a woman have been together for a long time. When a man receives a call from a woman, he will feel very annoyed. Will be annoyed, because men will treat these women's performance as control and violation of themselves.
In comparison, men do desire freedom more than women and do not like being restrained. They do not hesitate to give up freedom when they are pursuing women, but once they catch up, they begin to emphasize freedom again.
These men always think selfishly in their bones, when they want women to come around, women will appear, and when they desire freedom, women must not disturb themselves. This idea of
men is really unrealistic. What is the price for pursuing love? That "freedom" is undoubtedly one of them.
Love is a matter of two people. Each of us must accommodate in it, and we must know how to consider each other. It is impossible to be as free as when we were alone.
Women may be able to give men a certain degree of freedom in their feelings, and to "stock up" loosely with men. This is a kind of wisdom to get along with, but they can never give men absolute freedom.
If a woman really gives a man enough freedom and doesn't bother him at all, then in fact there is no love for a man.
When a woman gives you these three kinds of "freedom", don't think it is a good thing for a man, it means that she has given up on you.
1. Give you unlimited freedom to contact other opposite sexes
Love has a certain "exclusiveness". When we fall in love with someone, we cannot accept that the other person is too close to other opposite sex, and cannot tolerate the other person and other opposite sex. near. Therefore, both men and women who fall in love should consciously maintain a proper sense of distance from other opposite sexes. This is respect and responsibility for the other person.
If a woman really cares about you, she must be wary of women who walk too close to you, and will definitely be dissatisfied that you are too close to other sexes.
And when women no longer pay attention to whether you are too close to other women, completely ignore the women who appear next to you, no longer require you to keep a distance from other opposite sexes, and give you absolute freedom in contact with other opposite sexes, even very Facing the ambiguity between you and others calmly, it means that she has given up on you and this relationship in her heart.
2. Give you the freedom to completely control your own time
If you love someone, we always hope that the other person can spend time and energy on ourselves. Especially for women, they want the company of a man more, and even take the initiative to request and ask for the man's time. And if the company of men is less, women will inevitably have dissatisfaction and complaints.
No matter how busy a man is, he should set aside enough time to accompany his woman, otherwise, even if a woman is sensible, there will be sadness and sadness in his heart.
And when a woman no longer requires a man to spend time with herself, no longer complains about a man not chatting with her, no longer entangled in the time between two people, completely gives the man the freedom to control his time, and the man can do whatever he wants. It means that the woman has given up on the man, and he has given up on the man.
3. Give you the freedom to deal with your own affairs
Love, let two people become a whole, you have me in you, and you in me. When we love someone, we will naturally treat the other person's affairs as our own, and even value and care more than our own affairs.
A woman who has you in her heart, she wants to be involved in all your big things and small love, whether it is the trivial things of food, clothing, housing, or your mood and career ups and downs, she will treat it as her own thing and treat it with all her heart.
And if a woman doesn’t nag you anymore and no longer pays attention to everything about you, whether you are happy or unhappy, she ignores you like an outsider and gives you the freedom to deal with your own affairs. That means she Has drawn a clear line with you, and in her heart has nothing to do with you.
Women give you the above three kinds of "freedom", men don't be too happy too early, this is the performance that she has given up on you.
Many men always don’t understand that womenSo I always want to hold on to men firmly. This is actually a manifestation of women loving men. Because of the depth of love, women will be afraid, worry, want company, and caring. And if a woman really gives the kind of absolute freedom that a man wants, that's really sad.
Therefore, I hope that men can give up some so-called freedom for love. When receiving a phone call from a woman asking when to go home, don’t take this as a constraint and be bored. When a woman asks and nags, he can understand what it means. Caring.
