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Don’t choose love to enter marriage because of professional worship.
host Mo Han talked about her husband Zhang Peimeng’s domestic violence against her during a media interview some time ago.
and how he developed feelings for Zhang Peimeng, the two people entered the process of marriage.
can see from her own description that she admires the profession of athletes very much, so when she came into contact with Zhang Peimeng for work reasons and was pursued by him, Mo Han might think that there is no more suitable marriage partner. So the two of them also joined the marriage at the same time.
But now we have also seen that Mohan was domestically abused, Zhang Peimeng responded to denial...By now, I don't know how it will end.
However, please take this opportunity to invite many girls who have great admiration for a certain profession to have a little more personal observation when choosing a marriage partner. After all,
is a human being with you all your life, not a certain profession, and your personal character is good or bad, and it has nothing to do with your profession.
A lover does not conflict with worshiping a certain profession, only a connection between the two will affect a person's judgment.
ignores the judgment of personal conduct because of his good impression of a certain profession, in fact, he is not responsible for himself.
is like Zhong Nanshan and his wife. It is said that they also worship each other because of sports.
Now the two are very old, and they are too close to each other, but his wife is still waiting for him, guarding him, and accompanying him. Zhong Nanshan also loves his wife as always.
I think from them, we should also be able to see more different things.
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Don’t choose love because of personal worship. Before entering marriage,
has been exposed by the media. Some accounts offer long-term emotional courses and even private lectures to teach some men how to interact with women. The exposure after
confirms that many women have indeed been deceived.
These men are actually setting up their personal settings from the moment they contact you, step by step let you fall into the trap set by him.
made you both feel affection for him and give so much for him. In the end, he chooses to leave you, and he wakes up. This is a scam from beginning to end.
The weakness of human nature is essentially the weakness of emotion. Once someone uses emotion to hurt others, the injured person has to heal himself. That's why there are so many people who dare not accept love easily.
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Don’t choose to enter marriage because everyone around you is married.
In fact, in today’s society, especially today with the development of the Internet, everyone is digging out their own privacy and then releasing it, even prying into the privacy of others, and hoping to get it from it. The illusion of relief. In this illusion of
, although people and people look more and more boundless, they are actually getting bigger and bigger.
You must know that there are some things that you cannot see yourself from the experience of others.
Some people just saw the people around them getting married, and their parents, friends and neighbors kept talking about them, and finally got married in confusion.
Once there is something unacceptable in the marriage, complaining about others, and even complaining about yourself, was too hasty.
is too late. To be a wife or a mother requires courage to break free. You can get rid of the current situation without moving your lips.
all say that it is for your own good, but kindness and doing things are actually two different things.
persuaded you to get married and entered into a marriage with you. Of course, the difference is not just the effort of saying a few words. If you are not careful, you will spend a lifetime to redeem.
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Don't choose to enter marriage because of the beautiful imagination of love.
From ancient times to the present, love is mostly a vow of each other, and most of it is sad.
You have to say that it is beautiful, but it is accompanied by pain, and there are many emotions and feelings waiting for you to taste.
Everyone must be cautious before entering marriage. Love is only temporary, but marriage must be imprinted for a lifetime.
When a love begins, no one will stamp and stamp you a love certificate, and when a relationship ends, no one will give youIssue a certificate. Marriage is not the same. You must have a certificate for the beginning of a marriage and a certificate for the end. You will carry the record of your marriage and the traces of your marriage for the rest of your life. However, when love is over, you can only hide it in your heart and time.
You say it is beautiful, it seems to be too.
But beauty is not permanent, just like happiness is not permanent, only a lot of repetition is permanent.
hope that you who are in love can choose freely how you want to go. When you make up your mind, go on without hesitation.
Sometimes a choice is not inevitable. If you are willing to live a happy life, what does it matter? If you have love, just live like this for a lifetime.
The important thing is that after most of your life, whether in love or marriage, you can live happier and happier lives. One person, two people, a group of people are the final ending.
