Yishu’s novel "When There Are Women" that "is collected by others, placed properly, and carefully preserved. Prevent me from being surprised, from suffering, from being displaced, and from being left alone."
Woman Sometimes it is in the illusion of love, thinking that you have found the rest of your life, and he gives you a little sweetness, and you will be regarded as having the happiness of your entire life.
01
He is much older than me, almost two rounds older. His daughter is two years younger than me, a little more than a year to be exact.
When Mo Xiaoyu mentioned her newly-married partner, she was still a bit surprised. After all, looking at her with super good conditions and no character, she actually chose an uncle.
is as understandable as the milk tea sister. However, the uncle Mo Xiaoyu was looking for was actually not handsome and not much money. He was just a white-collar worker with an annual income of more than 300,000 yuan. You know, when a man is almost 50 years old, he still has this income. It can't be said that he is good, but he is really content.
But the uncle also has the uncle's favor. The uncle cooks good dishes. When Mo Xiaoyu had a severe stomachache, the uncle asked her to lie quietly, buy her stomach medicine and cook porridge. You know, Mo Xiaoyu's ex-boyfriend only knows that he is lying on the sofa and playing games. By the way, I will ask if you are any better. I can't bear to take you to the hospital and continue to kill in the world of kings. Uncle
's hobby is reading. Mo Xiaoyu and him met when they were engaged in a salon event in a book club. They were arranged by the organizer to share a good book together and give everyone a guide. Therefore, Mo Xiaoyu felt that it was not easy for a middle-aged man to read with peace of mind. There is a good impression at the beginning of
, which is a plus. The process of getting along was also very pleasant. The uncle would come to pick her up to watch movies and date. Although the uncle did not drive, he always beat Didi downstairs to her house to wait for her. Uncle
's daughter is so much younger than Mo Xiaoyu, this is the biggest obstacle that makes her unacceptable. And this uncle is very fond of his daughter, sometimes the father and daughter rely on each other on the sofa to watch TV, thinking that they are lovers. The daughter of
is not very friendly to Mo Xiaoyu, but she is well-educated. Even if she doesn't like her, she didn't put it on the face. In the end, Mo Xiaoyu got the certificate without telling her family and uncle, and then planned to cut it first and play it later. She said she would be happy, and bless her.
02
It’s really hard to tell whether you will be happy or not. It may vary from person to person. People who have seen piano chords for decades have also seen them part ways after a while.
However, uncle, a gentle, harmless man, if you really move your heart into married life with him, maybe the gorgeous appearance will fade. Marriage cannot escape the essential problem between the two sexes. Whether the two can achieve a reasonable balance between giving and taking.
Maybe, before you get married, you can be the little daughter of your uncle’s boyfriend, enjoying his 360-degree care of yourself.
However, it is undeniable that all marriages will be really trivial after they actually landed. Especially after the marriage, the child is born. How to deal with the relationship between Uncle Z1z's child and this newborn child is the biggest problem that tests the family relationship.
met a middle-aged woman in her 40s, Xue Jie. She married an uncle who was 20 years older than her because of her youth and ignorance when she was in her 20s. In fact, there is no dog-blood incident, but the days are spent day after day. After 20 years, the uncle has become a retired man in his 60s, and even has the unique taste of the elderly. In junior high school, my daughter has already begun to dislike this father and looks like a grandfather.
But Sister Xue is still kind after all. Although she and her retirement are still in the workplace and watch the news at home every day, and the husband walking on the street no longer has a common language, divorce is still a stubbornness that she does not want to say.
"Just do it, who's not in the middle age." Z2z Xue sister said helplessly.
From her unwillingness and tolerance, I can see the light in her eyes. If she were to give her another chance, she would not take this path, she would not choose this man.
03
The combination of old couples and young wives. At the beginning, women are attracted by the maturity and stability of the other party. They like the sense of security brought by the other party, while men like the other party.The feeling of youth and being depended on, both sides take what they need, cooperate with each other, and finally live together.
But the so-called love and marriage will not always be calm, full of unknown changes and trials, time is the biggest catalyst.
Mo Xiaoyu, who married the uncle, wondered if there will be any clear eyes and firm no regrets in a few years later, all of which can only wait for the hand of time to slowly open Pandora's box.
In many cases, the passion and freshness of marriage gradually recedes, and the life of "old couples and young wives" begins to show "true colors". The only thing waiting for women is the "difficulties" that are everywhere but hard to tell.
Of course, everything is not certain and inevitable. Some people have lived a quiet life after meeting the uncle and the uncle. However, this must have a strong heart, choose your own choice, and take the path you want to go. Live the way you like.
Do you think a woman who marries an uncle will regret it after a few years?
