text/Guangdong migrant worker
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The boyfriend of a female employee of Shenzhen Electronics Factory is addicted to games, and she asks her colleagues for help.
My female colleague complained to me that her boyfriend was not motivated at all, and asked me if she wanted to leave him. She said that she is 22 years old this year, and her boyfriend was born the same year as her. Both of them are electronics factories. The salary of general workers is about 4000. Now that there is less overtime, her boyfriend plays games whenever he has time, and doesn't care how she feels. Even if she is next to him, he does the same. Is he not loving her anymore?
She said that she saw other couples walking together holding hands and shopping together, while her boyfriend squatted down and held the phone in both hands, staring at the phone screen intently and playing games, and told him to go. He was reluctant to leave, and said to her, "What's the hurry, let's talk about it after playing this game.
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boyfriend is very young and it is normal to play games, but he is too addicted to games, so he ignores their love. She knows that her boyfriend loves her very much, but if you love someone, you must know how to pay for her, such as working hard to make money, taking her shopping, walking with her, etc.
has no boyfriend, he only cares about his own feelings and said that playing games can make people happy. Every time she saw her boyfriend play games too seriously, she really wanted to smash his phone, she asked me what should she do?
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I told her, first you have to tell your boyfriend to play less games in the future, or you have to break up with him, you have to explain your position to him, because he is too addicted to games, you must Put some pressure on him and let him know the seriousness of the matter.
Secondly, you have to do some happy things with him, such as playing badminton, running, going to the gym, etc., which can not only achieve the effect of physical fitness, but also enhance the relationship between the two and keep him away from games .
Finally, you also said that your monthly salary is about 4000, which is very low in Shenzhen. The consumption in Shenzhen is so high, and the two of you are in a romantic relationship. It is inevitable that you will buy and buy in your daily life. Your salary can hardly support your expenses.
Even if the salary is enough to spend, have you ever thought that there will be a lot of money after the two get married, so you have to save some money now, what should you do? It is impossible to rely on this dead salary, so you have to try to do it Sideline or part-time job, to increase your income, so that your pockets bulge, such as online self-media, part-time takeaway, etc. You have to know that money is not everything, but without money, it is absolutely impossible.
