really cares about a relationship, don't be too kind to the other party, especially you can't cut your heart out, for two reasons. On the one hand, if you treat one person well, then the other person will become accustomed to it, and one day you are tired and the other person will feel that you have changed if you don't want to pay. On the other hand, if you are so good to him, you will also have demands on him in your heart. Once the other party does not meet this standard, then you will be disappointed and the relationship between you will inevitably be affected.
The two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are strangers. They walked together because of a man. This should be considered a kind of fate. But the biggest joke between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to treat mother-in-law as mother and daughter-in-law as daughter. In this world, no one can match the position of a mother in our hearts, and no girl can replace the position of a daughter. A friend of
called Yueyue, she once said during a chat: "Take my heart out to my mother-in-law, and my marriage will be over in less than three years." When
was just married, her mother told Yueyue that she had arrived at her mother-in-law's house. You must honor your in-laws, it is not easy for our generation to walk now. Yueyue nodded solemnly, and silently wrote down her mother's words in her heart.
People’s hearts are changed. You are good to others, and they will be good to you. From the beginning, Yueyue respected her mother-in-law like a mother and did what a junior should do. At the New Year's Day, I would buy gifts for my mother-in-law, and sometimes I saw a pair of good shoes. I didn't want to buy it, so I bought it for my mother-in-law and went home.
Mother-in-law is prone to cracking her feet in winter, so Yueyue deliberately bought skin care products to prevent her feet from cracking. In order to maintain the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Yueyue almost cut her heart to her mother-in-law, but he found that her mother-in-law seemed to have great opinions on him.
Yueyue’s husband also has a younger brother. The younger sister-in-law and Yueyue are not the same type of person. He always shouts and drinks to her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law always smiles in front of her, but she always treats Yueyue stubbornly. Face. Everyone praised her brother-in-law for her filial piety, but she always poured dirty water on Yueyue. The mother-in-law
told the outsider that Yueyue does nothing at home, not even cooks food. It is her son who does it. Yueyue does not make money, but she can spend his son 5000 yuan a month. After hearing these words, Yue Yue was very angry. He went to ask her mother-in-law why she said that, but her mother-in-law was screaming and rolling underground. The mother-in-law of
cried and called Yueyue's husband, and said with jealousy that Yueyue beat her. After Yueyue's husband returned home, he knocked Yueyue to the ground without saying a word. My husband is a well-known filial son, and in his eyes all parents, as long as the parents are unhappy, the fault must be Yueyue.
After a series of things, Yueyue was also heartbroken. In the past, she would give her mother-in-law clothes during Chinese New Year, but now she also buys some food symbolically. The mother-in-law was not happy if she could not receive the gifts from Yueyue. She told her son that your daughter-in-law was not filial and would not even buy me any clothes.
The couple quarreled over housework for three days, so the relationship between the couple was weakened. In less than three years of marriage, my husband filed for a divorce, in this devastated marriage. Yueyue was already tired and agreed to divorce.
Sincerity does not necessarily come in exchange for sincerity. Some people regard the sincerity of others as stupid. If you really made the wrong payment, you will definitely be sad. The two get along like friends, but they are more able to make each other understand their position. Don't give blindly, no one is worth your unconditional giving. Learn to stop the loss in time, so that the other party can see your position, respect you, and face this relationship squarely.
