2020 11 month 22, the first 520 day of gambling,
Netizens told me that Si Mao Z5z published a few articles on
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, and there are many divorced older sisters. I have encountered this situation now. My boyfriend lost a lot of money in gambling. I am still hesitating whether to break up!
I am a child from an ordinary family and I am still in school. My parents pay 2,000 monthly living expenses, which is enough. I didn't have the habit of borrowing online loans and credit cards before. When he was first with his boyfriend, he said he owed thousands of dollars. Sometimes he mentioned inadvertently that his ex-girlfriend was more righteous and willing to help him borrow online loans, and he paid it off later. After
got together, he said that he started gambling in his freshman year, and he won a lot for a while, and his life was very cool. Later, he overturned and lost about 200,000 yuan. I was stunned when I heard it and asked him how he paid it in the end. He confessed 100,000 to his family. His dad scolded him and helped him to pay it back. The rest was his brother's borrowing of online loans, and then repaid it with living expenses every month, doing some part-time jobs, and slowly paying off!
He wants to spend money this summer. Although I have a little worry, I still borrowed an online loan for him for the first time and helped thousands of dollars. We were at home during the summer vacation, and our parents did not pay for living expenses, and we did not go to part-time jobs, so I was quite anxious at the time. Not long afterwards, he took the money from home and I took it to pay it off. The boyfriend of
also said that he shouldn't be gambling, he couldn't control himself when he was on his head, and he regretted it and said repeatedly that he had quit gambling. I didn't think too much about it. It's normal to make a mistake when he was young, and he has paid the price and learned his lesson.
He wants to take me out in summer vacation. I don't want to spend his money. I refused it several times, which was very unpleasant. Seeing that he persisted, I went there. It took four to five thousand for more than 10 days. I probably made about 1,000. When he was about to leave, he said that he was using tuition fees. At that time, only half of the tuition fees were left. He asked me to borrow online loans. I was more guilty for spending his money, so I borrowed 15,000 and his friend borrowed 10,000. Loan to get all the tuition fees.
Regarding paying back the money, what we think is that his living expenses are 4000, and I am 2000. If we find a part-time job, we can save money and we can pay it off in one semester. However, the reality is not like this.
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Before long, he couldn't stand the pressure and confessed to me. It turned out that he had some savings, but before going out to play, he gambled again and lost his savings, and still owed more than 30,000. In other words, in addition to the 25,000 debts I knew, he himself had 30,000 online loans.
After I knew it, it felt like the sky had fallen. Before I met him, my life was very regular. The living expenses provided by my parents sometimes had surplus. I never thought I would carry so much debt. You may think that 50,000 is not too much, but we are just students, where to find money ? ! The boyfriend of
has confessed once before, and this time I am afraid that he will completely lose the trust of his family. His grandmother loves him very much, and she will definitely be very disappointed and sad. The father-son relationship will also be hit hard...
I had to pay more than 10,000, and I was very struggling. There was almost nothing to spend except for food. My boyfriend occasionally played games and opened a tens of dollars, but still couldn't cover the bill.
has seen a lot of cases recently. The addiction to gambling is really hard to get rid of. I'm afraid that someday, he gambles on a whim and we have to increase debt.
I also feel very tired and thought about breaking up, but it feels a bit unjustified to leave him at this time. But my heart has not been at ease, I am afraid that I will not be able to fill the black hole after paying so much!
Now think about it, after being with him for less than half a month, he asked me to borrow an online loan, and then began to repay the money. Hey, is it worth it? Editor of
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, as someone who came over, I advise you to break up. Because of the gambler's words, I really can't believe it. Your boyfriend must have lied more than once. There is a high probability that he has been betting, and the debt may be more than the 50,000 you said.
gamblers have a strong ability to raise money, and those who do not lose will lose their fortunes, and will not stop. If they owe hundreds of thousands of credits, they will become black, and it is normal for the family to die.
After waiting for a few years, you will look back, and you will feel that your mind was flooded. You will meet many people in your life, some will make your life positive, some will be in the quagmire.Pull the people around you into the quagmire.
Stop loss in time!
