Last night, a netizen from Xiaoshan posted on the Xiaoneiwang App: How much money is appropriate for the married sister to give to his younger brother when he gets married?
I told you to give fifteen thousand, my mother said you are embarrassed to take out this little money It feels that my mother can make a little money from me, it is a bit uncomfortable...
comment area Many netizens posted how much money their aunts gave when they got married, or how many red envelopes their younger brothers gave when they got married. Most netizens of
said that for the average family, if the younger brother gets married, the elder sister's red envelope is not too small.
netizen @萧内ICAC: I only give 1000.
netizen @小丫爱碎花衣: I did what I could. My aunt only gave me 2000 when I got married. Three years ago, my family made 200,000 yuan a year. What the sister gives is all my heart.
Netizen @sunny_300: When my brother got married six years ago, the favor was 6800 or 8000. I can't remember clearly. The red envelope is 3600x2. At that time, all my belongings were gone.
netizen @我的头头 will sprout: I got married and my sister seemed to give ten thousand.
Netizen @黄巨屌: My wife and I gave 10,000 yuan. We usually buy his brother for what we use. We often buy it for him. There is no need for too big red envelopes. It is a lot more general and 8800 is nice.
netizen @小丫么小erxiya: At that time, his sister took 8000, and then my mother-in-law returned 4000.
Netizen @Report Head Teacher: When I got married, my sister gave 20,000 yuan in favor of meeting money.
Netizen @人土土小姐: On the day my husband and I got married, his sister and brother-in-law each gave 8000 red envelopes. After that, I gave birth to a child and paid 5000. On the contrary, my parents-in-law did not have anything.
netizen @Sunrise: My sister has followed ten thousand, I don't think it is too much, and I will still have a big head in the future, which is very annoying.
Netizen @浪哒哒: I got married and my brother seemed to have given me eight thousand.
Netizen @ Fried 小丸子: My sister-in-law gave us 2000. Does the red envelope mean enough? Ten thousand 5 is not enough? Do your parents want you to buy a car and a house for your brother?
Netizen @乐乐同学: My sister gave me 11800, and I plan to marry her and give him 28800.
and some netizens said that it was unpleasant for people to say such things. When my brother
gets married, the amount of red envelopes is all his heart, and he can do what he can. There is no need to force yourself for face and other reasons, making everyone unhappy.
netizen @钶钶粑粑: Anyway, I don’t think it’s too small, so give me 8,000.
netizen @大蠢哥: If you have money, you have more, if you don’t have money, you have less. Is there anything suitable and inappropriate? If you don't think it's too small, you'll get nothing.
netizen @纯漫漫: Just give 10,000, they like it or not, and I was drunk when I dig my daughter's money for my son. In the future, if your brother has children or something, you still have to take it out. Be sober. If you think your natal house tastes bad, go less. Whatever they do to you, you do to them.
Netizen @关公玩菜刀: It depends on your ability. If you have one, you can pack more points, if you don't have less, what your mother said is a little bit hurtful.
Netizen @仙 Prince: If you want me, don't give it to me, brothers and sisters, give me any money, don't give me salary for help, and don't be kidnapped by morals. Give it as you want, regardless of what others say.
Netizen @Anonymous: You also have your own family. The money should be controlled. Don't end up with your husband and you will not be in harmony with you. Your family also feels that it is of course not good. Fifteen thousand is a lot. Looking at your mother's attitude, 1.5 million is not too much.
netizen @叶落秋无声: Mom, my brother will build a house first, and I will lend them one hundred thousand. In the second year, I bought a house and borrowed money and loans by myself. In the third year, my brother paid 10,000 yuan for the new house. My mother said that many daughters’ families have already paid 20,000 yuan for the beam. I said I still owe the loan. In the fourth year, my family was demolished, and my mother told me that the villagers said that your daughter would not need to pay back the money if she married. I said that the money must be repaid, and I would pay less if I was polite. My niece is going to college. I plan to pack one thousand. My mother didn't think it was too few. Later, I saw that my cousin also pack a lot, so I had two thousand. My brother and I have a good relationship, and I am willing to help him, but it is not a taste for me to think about many things my mother said.
netizen @一生不绝: It's all a family, why bother, how much is your own heart, you have to pay for the marriage of your brother.
Source: Xiao intranet Xiaoshan Forum
