Eason Chan once sang, "There is no fear of being favored." No girl does not want to be favored in love. This is confidence and a sense of security.
Therefore, "being favored" should be the most flaunting thing in a relationship.
What is a preference?
is about halfway through the bath and will stop to reply to your message;
will probably not receive your good night at night, and you will not be able to sleep;
will prepare your birthday presents for you one month in advance, and I have already thought about how to tell you during Christmas Pass;
stay up until 12 o'clock to tell you happy birthday, you will receive the news at 00:00 not too soon;
you like songs and movies, I silently collect, your words can affect my mood for the day;
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Everyone who is in a relationship does not want to break up. All the reasons for breaking up actually stem from the details, and the details stem from love.
is very love, you can make love impeccable.
The most emboldening thing in the world is being favored.
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In relationships, the most important thing is to be valued by the other party.
The feeling that any word you say will be taken seriously, cared about, and executed by him is really good enough to explode.
You will cherish any words of mine in your heart. Although you don’t say it, you are better than anyone else; if I just mention what you like to eat, you will surprise me inadvertently someday...
even Yu, I'm just idle and bored with you, you will catch even a nonsense word not to make me feel embarrassed.
has a response every sentence, everything is settled, the feeling is really incomparable.
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Some love has been planned for a long time, and some love is pure coincidence.
I think it's pure coincidence. Isn't it another destiny?
Love is not exactly what we imagined, but after meeting you, you will be like love.
You are not the type I like, but you walked into my heart like this, as if you were passing by when I opened the door.
The type I like is you, as long as you are there, the standard will no longer exist.
I am very picky about love, but you just suit my appetite.
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Girls seem to be "liar" creatures.
obviously cares very much in his heart, but he will say "It's okay";
clearly hopes that the other person will stay, but will stubbornly say "you go";
can hold himself tightly when he wants to argue, but he is still indifferent I broke away and said, "You let go";
obviously cares very, very much, and is afraid of losing someone, but will still red eyes and say "I don't want to care about you anymore".
Many people don't understand and feel that such girls are acting, pretending, and suffering.
But in fact, she is just extremely insecure. Such girls are generally euphemistic and soft.
In the final analysis, what a girl wants is nothing but attention, a tacit understanding of "I always have you in my heart".
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I once saw this kind of love sentence on Weibo:
"I want to spoil you lawlessly, so that other boys can't stand your bad temper forever, so you can never leave you. Me." The highest level of
boys love girls is that he always wants to give you the best in the world, but found that the best in the world is you.
And the best way for a woman to live is to be her own queen before no one is spoiled; after meeting him, be her princess.
No matter what happens, you know that there must be someone who will protect you. This is the happiest confidence that love gives girls.
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There are too many temptations in the world, but I am loyal to you.
There are too many opposite sexes in the world, but I only love you.
There are many choices in the world, but I only choose youOne.
When you find out that he is only good to you, he only gives you the co-pilot to sit, only orders takeaways for you, and only cares about you when you have a cold and fever, then you can feel this in him Unique certainty.
This kind of "certainty" is the love he brings to you with a sense of boundaries. He will never be vague to you, let alone hesitate. In his heart, you are always the best.
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I still remember that Big S had a remark about "peeling shrimp" in the show, the effect is:
because peeling shrimp is very troublesome, so you never peel it yourself, if your husband is willing to peel it, eat it yourself, but if If he refuses to peel it, it doesn't matter, just don't eat it himself. As soon as
's remarks came out, there were mixed reviews on the Internet, and many netizens who disagreed went to criticize the big S.
Big S's reaction was quite normal, but her husband Wang Xiaofei couldn't stand it, and she stood up directly to protect her wife.
Some people may think that Wang Xiaofei is too short-sighted, but in fact, how can love be fair?
To love is to listen and believe, to be partial and partial, and to be paranoid!
Who can reason with love?
Not only did I not think that there was anything wrong with Wang Xiaofei's short-term protection, but I felt that this kind of dominance was very heartwarming. May I ask which girl does not want such a preference?
Many times, what we seem to care about is every word the other person says wrong, one thing they do wrong.
In fact, what really cares about is whether you have her in your heart, and whether you put her in a special position to give preference and favor.
You can choose if you like it, but love can only be yours.
In the end, what girls want in their relationships is:
If the whole world betrays you, I will stand behind you and betray the whole world;
If the whole world treats you badly, I will tell you the love of the last life.
