Author / Han Jiushu Figure / Internet
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as the saying goes: "If you are a woman, you will be happy at home, and if you are at home, you will be prosperous at home." A woman at
is the half of the family. , Affecting the lives of three generations, dominating the destiny of a family.
For a man, choosing the right wife is the best investment in his life.
A real Vanves woman has these three characteristics, and it is a great blessing to marry.
is kind-hearted, and blessings are endless.
A woman's best capital is not beauty, not figure, but kindness.
A kind-hearted woman, pure-hearted, will not hold a grudge because of the slightest fault of others.
They will only remember the good of others and be grateful.
They use a kind heart to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family, gain good popularity in life, and make the life smoother.
The child will grow into a warm person because of the mother's kindness.
Bill Gates said: "From my mother, what I get is'piety' and'kindness'." Through Bill Gates's huge donations in poverty-stricken areas around the world, we can indeed see that his mother has a deep influence on him. .
There is a European proverb that says: "The mother is the creator of the child's future destiny."
agrees.
If a woman has an impure mind, the child will naturally follow the mother's footsteps and embark on a path of no return.
On the contrary, the root is right and self-righteous, women have kind thoughts, and children will be kind to others.
As a result, a family's blessings will continue to flow.
has a mild temperament, and the family is harmonious and prosperous. Z2z
Zinni said: "A good temper is like a sunny day, exiled with light everywhere." The temperament of a
woman can determine the temperature of a family.
A woman has a gentle temperament, even if she encounters something unpleasant, she will not bring emotions to the family and mess up the home.
They not only have stable emotions, but also extremely high emotional intelligence, which can not only mediate conflicts between husband and wife, but also ease the atmosphere at home.
from parents, middle-aged wives, and down to children, they can do just the right thing and run the family happily.
Mengmu, the head of China's "three virtuous mothers", is an emotionally stable person.
Faced with Mencius, who was playing truant from school, she was furious, but not furious. Instead, she calmly picked up a pair of scissors and cut the woven cloth in front of Mencius, so as to educate Mencius that "people who give up halfway will Nothing is good".
Meng's mother was silent, but let Mencius start to study hard and persevere.
As a result, she not only avoided the estrangement between mother and child caused by education problems, but also cultivated Mencius to be a persevering person.
"Cai Gen Tan" says:
"family has had it, it should not be angry, should not be abandoned lightly.
this is unspeakable, I will use others to insinuate it; if you don't understand it today, I will warn you again in the coming day.
is like a spring breeze thaw. It is the model of the family if harmony dissipates ice."
is the so-called "home and everything flourish". A woman with a gentle temperament can easily dissolve all contradictions in the family and put the family on the right path of prosperity.
Filial piety to parents, enze descendants
In today’s society, men and women are married.
When a man marries a daughter-in-law, there are more people in the family, and when a woman marries, she has a brand new home. If the daughter-in-law does not understand humility and filial piety, if the mother-in-law will not accept and consider, it will be difficult to solve the problem of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Men are tied in knots and are embarrassed everywhere; children are tied in knots and grow arrogantly.
Over time, such a family, no matter how rich it is, will gradually decline.
"University" says: "Being a son of man, only ends with filial piety."
Filial piety is the foundation of man and the greatest sign of a woman Vanves.
A real Vanves woman, even in the face of her mother-in-law's various difficulties, will use filial piety to resolve the contradiction between the two generations.
Under the influence of their mothers, children will also learn how to pass on filial piety.
There is a saying widely spread on the Internet: the most senior show off wealth in a family is to raise a grateful child. z2The gratitude of z
children does not fall from the sky, but the result of their experience in daily life.
is the so-called "men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside." In many cases, women have a much greater impact on the family and children than men.
The women of Vanves will make their husbands feel at ease in their careers and guard the rear of the family for him.
Working together, the husband and wife can manage the family happily after all.
The ancients said: “Matching a family will prosper for three generations, and marrying the wrong family will harm three generations.”
A good woman can prosper three generations of the prosperous family; a bad woman, a husband, can destroy an entire family.
A man is the backbone of a family, and a woman is a haven for a family, which determines the stability and happiness of a family.
Marrying a kind-hearted, mild-tempered and filial parents is the greatest blessing for a man. If you can marry
, you must cherish it.
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