Electricians have been working for a long time
parents think you ignore your family
wife think you don’t care about her
kids think you are not worthy of him (her)
friends and family think you don’t have time to gather together
friends think you don’t want to play together
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In fact, it is really difficult for a man to be an electrician!
Did you see the clothes he was wearing? When you come home, as a wife, you will only think his clothes are dirty and difficult to clean. But have you ever thought about what kind of work clothes this man went through outside to become so dirty? This man you always dislike, in order to let you and your baby live a good life, he has to work hard to support your home, this is the electrician, a man who is not afraid of hardship and tiredness, just to take on his own responsibilities!
complained that he went home and ignored you and fell asleep? Think that this man doesn't love you and is irresponsible to you. They were so tired outside that they just wanted to get a good night's sleep during the limited rest time when they got home, because there might be a problem with the electrical equipment, and they have to struggle on the front line again. So it's not that they don't want to sit face-to-face with you and say some thoughtful things, but reality does not allow them. They want to make money and support you! But as a wife, did you understand him?
But as your wife, have you thought about what you should do for your husband?
(1) Create a warm environment. When your husband returns home, create a relaxed and warm environment. Don’t make two people upset because of trivial things such as clothes that must be washed at the time, and the floor must be spotlessly clean. Why bother?
(2) If you notice that your husband is unhappy, don’t ask the bottom line. If he wants to tell you, don’t ask him to say it; if you don’t want you to know that you are upset, continuing to ask will be counterproductive. At this time, you can be a wife. What it does is: love! Considerate! tender! In this way, even if his heart hurts, at least you will be his "pain killer" and "anti-inflammatory drug".
(3) The "contradictory between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" has a long history. When you have conflicts, your husband will only be splinted in the middle. If things go on like this, it will do great harm to all three people.
husband is not easy, "electrician" husband is not easy, who doesn't want to be at home with his lover and children all day? But there is no way. In the face of reality, everyone has nowhere to hide and cannot be lazy. When aggrieved, women can cry, make trouble, and confide; when aggrieved, men can only hide themselves and heal their injuries. So, electrician wives, please give your husband more tolerance, understanding and love!
