Regarding marriage and love, there is a statistic that everyone may be shocked. There is one out of every 7,5 Chinese women who cheat. This ratio is among the best in the world. Perhaps this data shocked many people. After all, Chinese women have always been introverted and conservative in our hearts, so why do they choose to cheat?
1. Ms. Gu 44 years old for money
Ms. Gu, 44 years old this year, still maintains a very good figure, plus the skin that is regularly maintained, although she is 44 years old, outsiders look like 34,5. When
talked about the reason for her derailment, Ms. Gu did not hide it, it was purely for money. The former Ms. Gu was a great beauty and rejected the pursuit of many men. She only fell in love with her husband, Mr. Li. At that time, Mr. Li and Ms. Gu were working together. At that time, Mr. Li was also more beautiful than Panan, 1.83 tall. Coupled with the handsome appearance, she captured Ms. Gu's heart.
The two fell in love and got married soon. At that time, Ms. Gu valued the appearance of a man, but now she always tells others that when you marry a man, you must not look at the appearance.
Although Mr. Li looks handsome, he doesn't have any big ideals. He just wants to be a small clerk. More importantly, because of his handsome looks, it is inevitable that there will be women who will get in trouble, and he will not refuse. Ms. Gu was very dissatisfied.
It doesn’t matter if you were not self-motivated when you were young. After having a child, Ms. Gu realized what is called the hardship of life. After the child was born, the husband didn't care about anything, and the pressure of life came to Ms. Gu. At this moment, a considerate boss appeared, who could help Ms. Gu financially, and the price was for Ms. Gu to satisfy his desires.
To make a living, Ms. Gu had to choose to cheat.
2. Ms. Zhang 42 years old because of loneliness
is the opposite of Ms. Gu. Ms. Zhang’s family conditions are very good. Her husband is a very successful businessman. She gives her a lot of pocket money every month, and she herself is very economically minded. Do some financial planning, there is also a certain source of income. Ms. Zhang, 42, can be said to be smooth.
Because of this, she feels lonely, especially when her husband is too busy to control himself, her loneliness is nowhere to tell. According to what she said, she lived the same life every day, there was no rush, that kind of life was really boring.
So Ms. Zhang embarked on the road of derailment, so that her life was not so cold and cold, and she got warmth from other men.
3. Ms. Tang’s conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Ms. Tang’s story is an exception. She is not because of the money, nor because her husband does not care, but because of the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Ms. Tang once felt that to love someone, just be with him. But after getting married, she felt that this sentence was wrong. If you love someone, you must also consider his family.
Husband, Mr. Lu, is really good to herself, but her mother-in-law is making things difficult for him. However, Mr. Lu is a big filial son. Indiscriminately letting her tolerate her, this only fuels her arrogance.
For Ms. Tang, the saddest thing is that after marrying her husband, she feels that she is a lonely outsider. Although she knows that her husband wants to reconcile the contradictions, she is always patient, which makes her feel unhappy.
is also like this. She couldn't help complaining to her friends of the opposite sex, was enlightened by the other party, and developed feelings over time, and then chose to cheat.
Conclusion: In fact, in the case of women derailed by Zhima Jun, except for a small number of women who are purely sexually derailed, most of the women's derailment is due to reasons. Mostly because of dissatisfaction with my husband, a small part is because of money.
