Recently, the Xiamen Huli District Court mediated a divorce dispute. The 18-year-old daughter appeared in court to testify that her father had illegally lived with Wu XX. The girl bluntly said that she did not want a father and two mothers. She wanted to lead a normal life.
The incredible thing is that the girl, mom and dad, another mom, and the younger brother born to another mom have lived together for 6 years under the same roof. What's even more funny is that the girl's father and relatives from her father's side came to persuade the girl, telling her that "a family of five is right for one father and two mothers."
If you didn't look closely at the date of the incident, it would be 2020. I would almost think that I would have traveled back to the feudal patriarchal society of polygamy. How did
develop into the situation it is today? It turns out that the girl's father's object of derailment, Wu Moumou, was originally a tutor hired by her parents when the girl was 8 years old.
In 2010, the girl bumped into her father's intimate behavior with Teacher Wu, and then Teacher Wu became pregnant. In June 2013, the parents divorced. In July of the same year, his father and Wu XX registered their marriage. Two months later, the two divorced and the girl’s parents remarried. Later Wu Moumou brought his son to the house and lived with his father in the master bedroom, while the mother and the girl could only live in another room. During this period, the girl’s father and relatives on his side had been brainwashing the girl, saying that it was right for a family of five to live together, so that five people lived under one roof for six years. At the end of the
incident, the man agreed to a divorce through court mediation. The girl’s father, Mr. Wang, denied that it was a flash marriage during the marriage. Both parties agreed that the property belongs to Mr. Wang and that Mr. Wang will bear the loan alone; regarding the share of property rights enjoyed by the girl’s mother, Ms. Chen, Mr. Wang paid 3.05 million yuan in compensation.
Everyone is fortunate that the girl is able to get rid of the deformed family and lead a normal life. The
incident involved several repeated marriages and divorces. What were the underlying reasons? Worth pondering. After the first divorce from the original spouse, the man quickly married the third party, then quickly divorced the third party, and then quickly remarried with the original spouse... It is incredible, it looks like the three adults have discussed it. Perhaps the purpose is to give the child born to a third party the status of a legitimate child, and then remarry with the original spouse, perhaps due to the pressure of the family reunification room.
This incident reflects the fact that the family concept of the man’s family is quite feudal. They blatantly support two husbands and two wives. They also feel that it is normal that the feudal ideology of polygamy is at work. Don't believe it, in some places, they feel that it is not a shame that a man has money to marry two wives, but that he "has the ability."
Secondly, they let the man remarry with the original partner, perhaps because of the feudal thinking of the regent room. The last point is the most important, patriarchal. The feudal-minded family believed that it was necessary for the offspring to give birth to a boy for the incense in the family to continue. This time the third party gave birth to a boy, so they tried to bring a family of five to live together, regardless of whether all of them were happy. The mother of
girl, perhaps because she did not have the ability to raise the girl alone, has been bearing the burden of living under the same roof with them for 6 years. She did not file for divorce until the girl turned 18 and became an adult. The above
are real events that happened in 2020. Is there a sense of magical realism? Alas, equality between men and women still has a long, long way to go.
