After the divorce, are you afraid that your ex-wife will be better off than you? Three men tell the truth

couple went to divorce, they changed from relatives to familiar strangers.

No matter how bad the relationship between husband and wife is, after the divorce, there is still a place in my heart for the person who was closest to him. What do men think about the person who was closest to him?

After a divorce, will a man be afraid that his ex-wife will be better off than himself? The three men told the truth.

Mr. Dai

To be honest, after the divorce, I don't want my ex-wife to live better than me, it would seem that I am very incompetent. I selfishly hope that my ex-wife will not remarry and live with our children. I also hope that my ex-wife can come to me for help in times of difficulty, so that I will have a superior mentality.

Look, how bad are you without me.

I know it’s a little prudent, but I don’t care if others are doing well or not, but my ex-wife is different. This woman I once loved, the woman I had, even if I don’t love it anymore, I don’t want it anymore. Not disappointed when others get her.

This may be determined by the male chauvinism of men. They have always possessed what was once their own, and feel that this thing has always belonged to their own.

I don't know what other people think. Anyway, I am afraid that my ex-wife will be better than me. This has nothing to do with stinginess, it is a matter of face.

Mr. Fang

knows no secrets. I am afraid that my ex-wife will be better off than me. This is undoubtedly slapped me in the face to let people around me know that it is right for my ex-wife to divorce me and that I am not worthy of my ex-wife.

This is a man’s face problem. The woman I don’t want, after leaving me, finds someone who is better than me and lives happier than I was with myself. This shows that I am incompetent and unable to make my ex-wife happy.

In fact, after a divorce, most men can’t let go of their ex-wife. This is why after divorce, men will ask their ex-wife to remarry. Even if there is no remarriage, for the ex-wife who once belonged to him, the man does not want her to marry again.

I don't want my ex-wife to marry again, it feels as if my things have been taken away. I am even more afraid of my ex-wife's life better than me, which is simply slapping me in the face and trampling on my dignity.

Mr. Liang

believes that more than 90% of men don’t want their ex-wife to live better than themselves. If the ex-wife lives better than me, it means that I am not good, and that I am not worthy of the first wife.

Men are very face-saving. They hope that after the divorce, their ex-wife can live well, but the prerequisite is to live well without them.

Men are very willing to remarry after divorce, but they are opposed to the remarriage of their ex-wife. For their ex-wife, men still possess possessiveness. Although he has no right to control, he still hopes that his ex-wife will always belong to him. .

I am afraid that my ex-wife will remarry, and I am even more afraid that she will live better than me. This kind of ambivalence cannot be explained clearly. It may be a man's self-esteem.

Conclusion: The answer is a bit heartbreaking. After divorce, most men do not want their ex-wife to live better than themselves. As long as you are well, it is a sunny mentality, not the mentality of a divorced man towards his ex-wife.

More men are afraid that their ex-wife will live better than themselves, at least not better than when they lived with themselves, because if the ex-wife lives well, it means that the ex-husband is not good, and the divorce of the woman is right.

For men who want face, this is basically slap their faces and trample on their dignity. Therefore, their selfish hope that their ex-wife cannot live better than themselves, simply because of their own face.