If you want a girl to stop and continue to communicate with us during the daytime to strike up a conversation, the first question we have to solve is: What does the girl dislike?
first, they don’t know why you are here, (this point we will talk about the solution in the film)
second, they don’t know when you will leave, you are not the kind of man who keeps pestering them
because you are There are too many kind of deliberately good men around my sister, who dare not express their intentions, and always pester them. Girls have their own affairs in the street during the day, so they don't want to meet such men.
If you solve these two problems, then it will be much easier to open
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Attention>Context>Intent>Introduction
Attention : Z14z get the girl’s basic attention
background: give the background of what she is doing and tell her what you are doing now
intention: why do you want to talk to her, show your intentions, basically I like you to be you I’m attracted to talk to you
Introduction: shake hands and introduce yourself, start a conversation and exchange
The main point here is that many people can’t open the girl, or you don’t get her attention, for example, if you speak too softly or use it Wrong approach, she ignores your presence, or walks away without hearing you at all.
or did not indicate the correct intention, the girl does not know what you are up to, think you are a salesman or a strange person.
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If you add self amusement when you strike up a conversation, the effect will be better.
When you have self amusement, some of your internal systems will start to operate.
Your body language, look in your eyes, and tone of voice will be different and full of sexuality. The meaning of
self-entertainment is: I enjoy my own fun in life, and then I share this fun with others.
When you have self-entertainment, this allows you to avoid certain negative emotions and thoughts.
But the premise is that self-entertainment must be used in conjunction with intentions. If only self-entertainment is used, it will often be like a mentally retarded person. But when it is combined with intention, a certain tension is created.
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I have seen many students open the way on the spot that makes girls feel scared and want to escape from him
because they lack the opening comfort:
, for example, you have to keep a comfortable distance when opening
should smile, speak slowly, and control the rhythm of the voice
. The first five seconds when girls are struck up, they will only think about whether this is a threat, a friendly person, or a potential partner when they see your brain.
So if you don't want girls to think you are a threat, you have to stay open and comfortable.
If a girl walks quickly, then you should walk to where she can see you, hey, get her attention instead of approaching her behind her.
If a girl is sitting there, you should sit down after opening her. Do not talk to her in a certain angle that despises her. This will give her a strong social pressure.
And in the process of chatting, you should create a fun and pleasant atmosphere, instead of letting the other party force to accept everything you say. The second core of
that can increase comfort is called empathy statement. Its meaning is that you acknowledge and say how girls feel at the moment, which can reduce social pressure and is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence and social wisdom.
For example, when you open a girl who is chatting with a friend, you should say:
Hey, sorry to interrupt your conversation, brabrbara will start to tell your background and intentions
instead of speaking directly to the target, completely ignore her Talking to a friend.
