women need to get along with their mother-in-law in advance to avoid the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
mother is the childhood epitome of a man, the first woman to love him unconditionally, is a man's initial understanding of family love. When
is supported by his mother in a relationship, the process of marriage and love becomes even more powerful. But not every woman has the luck to meet a good mother-in-law. The most bald Phoenix man and the most annoying Fudi Demon are often tied for the first marriage killer.
It is necessary to see the parents in advance, because a mother-in-law basically predicts the state of a man after marriage.
The position of your mother-in-law determines your position after marriage.
If you have good luck, meeting a future mother-in-law who treats you as a daughter will love you more than her own son. Whether it's superficial or sincere, at least you won't be wronged after you get married. When you call on his son, you won't jump out to accuse you, your wayward little woman looks like, and your mother-in-law won't overturn the jealous jar even if she looks in her eyes.
If you meet a mother-in-law who treats you as a fertility machine, like all complex family ethics dramas, set sail on the way to spawn the brigade. If is a little bit unlucky and meets a mother-in-law who insists on giving birth to a grandson, then it is very likely that she will live as a mother-in-law. The value of a daughter-in-law in the mother-in-law's eyes is only childbirth. If she still can't give birth to a son, the retro mother-in-law may still carry you to urge her son to divorce.
The mother-in-law and mother in the life observation variety show
Yi Nengjing relies on "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" and "Mother-in-law and Mother" to go out of the circle again. This time out of the circle is not to be ridiculed as a fine character, but the high EQ of women in the new era And small art.
After traditional women become mothers, they all become more or less savvy. They have to calculate their living expenses and plan their children's daily education. Most women have to rely on their weak shoulders to support the little family of love. Yi Nengjing's mother-in-law has become a fan in the show, she is a lovely old lady who listens to her daughter-in-law. The
family can have a good family atmosphere, so that Yi Nengjing can write a small essay full of love. The combination of the literary goddess and the literary goddess is paired with a kind and tolerant mother-in-law. This beautiful marriage allows Yi Nengjing, who is not young, to retain the happy appearance of a young woman in love.
In contrast with Yi Nengjing during the same period, Lin Zhiying and his wife. Lin Zhiying, as a god of immortality, also took his wife to the observation variety show. It has been several years since Lin Zhiying took her son on "Where Are You Going, Dad" last time. This time the couple went on variety shows together, but from the very beginning, many mother-in-laws and daughters-in-law were controversial. In the first episode of
, Lin Zhiying's wife cried, and the grievances accumulated over the years were truly recorded by the camera.
Marriage is like a mirror, reflecting the truest appearance of the couple. Whether a marriage is beautiful or not, like a person drinking water, he can only know whether it is warm or cold.
Lin Zhiying’s mother is a traditional mother-in-law with a very principled and independent thinking. She not only has requirements for her daughter-in-law’s dress, but is also very dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law’s cooking skills. Even though they have given birth to two grandchildren, getting along with their daughter-in-law still cannot be fully approved by Lin Zhiying's mother.
Perhaps the mother-in-law did not approve of such a marriage at the beginning. It is said that Lin Zhiying's wife is a rich daughter who is only responsible for taking care of the family's daily life, but not proficient enough. Many things are left to the family nanny.
The mother-in-law never liked the clothes her daughter-in-law gave to her daughter-in-law to buy famous brands. When the traditional mother-in-law meets the trendy daughter-in-law, it is the most peaceful concession for the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law to spend these years safely.
Even if Lin Zhiying’s wife met a strong mother-in-law, she was thankful that her mother-in-law just insisted on her traditional old man, and did not over-intervene in the family life of the two.
There is a very interesting proverb in ancient Chinese saying that a thousand-year-old wife becomes a wife. The main idea is that after suffering from the young, one day he will succeed in advancement. But a good marriage doesn't kill people. Women who are more beautiful after marriage always get more happiness.
Marriage is still very important to everyone, especially in this environment where love is extremely fast. Even if you choose a job, you have to consider your capital background, and a manOf course, the human background must be valued. Everything is progressing. What's wrong with a friendly meeting based on respect? A friendly meeting can exchange more effective information.
Mother-in-law and mother are always the themes that cannot be avoided in marriage. Women are not only marriage candidates but also love interviewers. Z8z women need to respect the mother-in-law, the important role of raising her boyfriend. But you don’t have to be too pleased, because love is fluid and mutual.
In any relationship, respect is not only the background color of love, but also the cornerstone of happiness. We must give seriously and accept patiently. In any relationship, love yourself seriously and love others with your heart.
I am Li Yang, I wish you happiness.
author | Li Yang
picture source | natsumi
graphic editor | Xia Yile and
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