all say that every woman is a pearl and it takes a man to treasure it all his life. However, there are still many men cruelly scratching this crystal pearl.
After many years, this scar still cannot be healed, and it has become a cinnabar mole in a woman's heart. It is always painful when there is no one.
They want to complete their own salvation, but they have nowhere to ask.
So, how long does it take for a woman who has been hurt by a man to get out of the shadow of the past?
Ms. Ding
I don’t think I can forget the man who hurt me in my life. Although I no longer hate him, his position in my heart is still irreplaceable.
Because there is a scar deep in my heart that he left me, although it is no longer painful, but I also know that this scar will accompany me for life.
I also believe that most women are like this. When you deeply love a man and think you will be with him for a long time, he becomes a deserter, leaving you alone.
So after many years, you may not feel the pain he left you, but every time you see him, your heartbeat will still speed up, and a certain corner of your heart will feel empty.
I have been in love with my first love for five years, at that time I thought he was the person I was going to marry. However, his parents felt that my family situation was not good and could not bring benefits and convenience to their family.
I thought he would fight his parents for me to the end.
However, under the opposition of his parents, he quickly surrendered and married a woman who could bring him faster success.
Now, we all have families and children.
My current husband is very considerate to me and I am very happy. I live close to my ex, so I often have the opportunity to meet him.
But now that I see him, I will not intentionally alienate or get close, so I just nod and say hello. Although I will always have his mark in my heart, the past has passed.
In this life, our fate will end here. I hope that if there is a future life, we will not see you again. Z2z
Ms. Du:
Everyone said that there is a white moonlight in a man's heart, that is, his first girlfriend.
Even if they finally become a successful man, they still can't forget the woman they fell in love with when they were poor and white.
And in my mind, there is also a white moonlight. We met in the ivory tower, and our days were sweet and romantic. However, during the graduation season, he abandoned me desperately planning to go to his hometown to find him, and married a woman in his hometown.
was a bolt from the blue for the young me at that time. I once thought about going to him desperately to ask for an explanation, but the day I went, he was having a wedding.
Seeing him laughing with the bride, my heart was so painful that I couldn't help myself.
So after many years, I still have deep self-doubt, thinking that I am not worthy of being loved, so I will be easily left behind.
I can't forget the only man I have ever loved deeply, so I still have his shadow in my heart.
But I would never want to see him again, let him be buried in my heart forever.
I also hope to be able to wait for someone to open the knot in my heart, let me walk out of the haze of the past and learn how to love again.
In fact, those smiling women we will see in our lives must have been hurt, crying, hesitating, and helpless behind them.
Every woman always falls down several times, always suffers several times, always cries several times, and always collapses several times in the pursuit of love, but she still has to get up and continue on her way.
Because in our lives, there is more than just happiness and laughter. We must learn to face the joys and sorrows of life, and learn to accept any lessons that fate gives us.
No matter what you encounter, you must work hard to experience, accept, and struggle. And this process is the process of completing your self-sublimation as well as the process of completing self-salvation.
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