Seeing this topic today, some people will think, don’t you advocate girls worshiping money? Isn’t
just thinking about spending men’s money all day? Do you have self-esteem?
is not the case. Learning to guide men to spend money on themselves is a skill for girls to defend love!
Spending money for women is an emotional investment for men. The more his emotional investment, the stronger his feelings for you will be.
On the other hand, the more money a man spends on a woman, the less likely it is to leave you!
So, how to guide him to invest in himself?
Don't be too rigid, try to play a woman
women who are too sensible will mostly be left out, and spoiled women will always get attention.
Especially if you want men to be willing to spend money for you, women must know how to pet men.
Spoiled women are more likely to win the sympathy of men. A man can't stand a woman's acting like a baby.
A very sturdy woman, a very coquettish woman, men will definitely be more willing to spend money on a coquettish woman.
When a woman knows how to act like a baby, a man will perfect a woman. Women know how to act coquettishly with men, but they need men more.
Men are also more willing to spend money for spoiled women. This is mutual respect.
Even if a woman has a lot of money, she can earn money to buy clothes, but she still needs a man's money. This is a man's love for a woman, and there is some joy in it.
He is willing to spend money for you, because he loves you.
Whenever a woman is willing to spend a man's money, money is actually the taste of love.
You have to give him good feedback and let him feel your attitude.
Remember, no matter how small he does for you, don't take it for granted.
Even if he just bought you some snacks, remember to praise him sincerely.
In this way, men will feel valuable, so they will like the feeling of paying for you and getting rewarded.
Moreover, your praise and gratitude must not only be sincere, but also contrast with the examples around you.
For example, if he helps you with housework today, you can say: "My girlfriends envy me very much. Only my married husband will help me. Z2z
and their husbands only give a bag on holidays and return. Family is usually slumped on the sofa. I am really happy to marry you. "
You must know that men have a desire to keep up with the competition. When they are sincerely praised by you, they will have a stronger motivation to give.
Finally, I want to tell you that guiding the other party to invest is a process, not a result that can be obtained with a simple sentence.
This does not conform to the laws of psychology, nor is it a scientific method of love. This delicate investment method of
will be easier to be accepted by the other party than the other party in one step.
With your sincere encouragement, the other party will work harder for you, and the relationship between you will get better and better.