Love Uncle Introduction:
What do you think a man should have when he loves you? Does
regularly take the initiative to invite you to dinner and watch movies, or will I buy you bags and lipsticks you like?
Maybe many girls think that the love of a man is hidden in the details, being able to actively pay for themselves and willing to spend money for themselves, this is love. Of course, willing to spend money for you, paying for you is also a form of love. But the man who can only serve you tea, not necessarily loves you. Sweet love is romantic, but romantic and dangerous . "Sweet love, romantic and dangerous"
Details are very important in love, but we can't just look at the surface of things .
Drinking tea and water are all the details of love. Maybe many girls admire that kind of love. Your boyfriend pets you like a child. If you want to eat fruit, he will wash it for you, cut it and feed it to your mouth. in. He will even wash your clothes and help you dress. Many girls think this is the love of men. In fact, this kind of love can be achieved by many people, and the value is not very high, and it does not even cost much. Although this love of
is also a manifestation of details, it does not fully show that he really loves you. Details are very important in love, but we can't just look at the surface of things, we need to further understand men's emotions towards themselves.
Many women think that when in love, a man should treat his girlfriend as a daughter, not as an old mother. There is some truth to this idea. The original intention of girls is to be pampered and loved by men. But girls shouldn't take themselves too seriously. They shouldn't "reach out with clothes and open their mouths with food." Everyone should have their own independence, and this kind of love is lasting.
A person’s love for you is very important, but other qualities should not be ignored. Love in
needs to be reflected in many details, but some details do not have much meaning. It's like a man washing and cooking for you and buying small gifts for you. These are all low-cost loves. When a woman chooses a man, don't love a man just because of these small details.
A person’s love for you is very important, but other qualities cannot be ignored. First of all, what deserves your attention is the character of the other person, not to mention how good this person needs to be. The character must pass the test, and the three views must be positive. This is the most basic and important point. Girl, the man you want to marry can talk sweetly and be gentle and considerate, but it's far more than that.
Love should be about growing up together, not about becoming a "giant baby" raised by the other party.
Many men often give women a promise "I will support you". Such a promise is actually not necessary. Love should be equal, giving should be basically balanced, and each other should respect the choices of both parties.
Love can be reflected in all aspects, even if it is not enough. Love should mean that two people get along very well together, each having their own free space and choice.
Men cannot make decisions for girls, and girls should not easily believe the sweet words of men. Girls should understand that love on paper is not strong enough. There are not only sweet words in love, but also mutual company and growth together. You can enjoy the happiness and satisfaction of being loved by the other party, but you can't let yourself become a "giant baby" raised by the other party under this kind of love.
love uncle's conclusion:
true love is mutual support and mutual achievement! Many men spoil you unconditionally, and unprincipled tolerate you. This is not good love, and it will not bring you growth. Z1z good love should have sweet words and romantic details, but also know how to empathize and understand each other is not easy.
